I lost my virginity to someone I love but I am not sure if I would marry her though. I am not confirmed. If she did had a baby, does that mean I have to stay with her? I do love her and all but I'm not sure if I want to get married with her.
When's the 1st time you lost your virginity?
2006-09-29 03:17:09 · 16 answers · asked by Daft Punker 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I love my virginity at age 12. You should have sex with her.
2006-10-06 13:29:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
With someone that I married, and thought I was in love with,but was too young to know. And had a baby who suffered from the reprocussions of our divorce. If you love her with all your heart there would be no doubt of what you should do. If you doubt because you are young, then your reminding yourself that cliche that we as teens try to fight "your too young to know what love is"
THe very idea of those words creates a patronization of oneself.
But all too many times it is right. Do not marry this girl because you feel it is the right thing to do. You only feel it is the right thing because that is what society has taught you. But society does not have to live with the consequences of your decisions, you do.
If you want to do the right thing, then be as much of a father that you can to this child, and emotionally support the mother as well. Unfortunately if you have created a child with someone you love, that doesent mean that love will last, but it does mean that you are a father for life. And that is something that will last forever.
2006-09-29 10:27:52 · answer #2 · answered by fryedaddy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am so shocked at the answers i read here. Is it okay to just shell out some money as support and move on with your life as if nothing happened !!!!!
What about the girl.. a baby will change her life completely and what about the baby... is it his fault that he was not conceived with love and within matrimony ??!!?? Why only the girl has to bear the brunt of a mistake committed by two people ???
If you are a gentleman.. then you should do what is morally correct. Don't shy away from your responsibilities. God bless
2006-09-29 10:40:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Love is a feeling directed at someone which acknowledges their goodness. If married because of have baby that shouldn't call love but responsible.
2006-09-29 10:21:45 · answer #4 · answered by CK 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
since you're doing grown up things you had better grow up. you should know the answers to these questions already.if you don't want a life time commitment then don't do irresponsible things, like have unprotected sex with a woman you don't want to be married too. your future children deserve parents that can make decisions together for the best interest of their child. no kid wants parents who are immature and still acting like children. think,think, next time think first.
2006-09-29 10:23:17 · answer #5 · answered by punkin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think marrying someone JUST because you are having a baby together JUST aggravates the problem. If she has a child, you have a duty to support and assist her, BUT DO NOT MARRY HER if you do not really love her.
NEXT TIME USE PROTECTION.
Hope things go well for you.
2006-09-29 10:24:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Stop having sex with anyone at this point. I have a feeling you're to young to be doing things even an adult would have a hard time handling. Don't put yourself or your girlfriend in that position to have to make decisions about pregnancy etc. And please, when you're older and are in a committed relationship and decide to have sex, use protection. STD's can kill, are painful and look nasty!
2006-09-29 10:21:18 · answer #7 · answered by candeekissez 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you don't have to marry her. It would be nice if you gave her support though. I can not stand the person I lost my virginity to. I was so blind...
2006-09-29 10:18:59 · answer #8 · answered by Mujer Bonita 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my friend having a child with someone does not make the one, that is the right man for her or the right woman for him. too often within our churches persons commit fornication and there is a result of pregnancy and the church forces them to get marry; now it is good that the church encourage marraige at this time but if you don't love that person or thing she is not the one for you that is your decesion. please dont go around sleeping with young ladies and breaking their heart they very special beings.
2006-09-29 10:23:34 · answer #9 · answered by P S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because you get some chick pregnant doesn't mean you have to stay with them... If I had a dollar for every stupid woman I've knocked up I'd be rich...
2006-09-29 10:19:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋