2006-09-29 03:14:46 · 9 answers · asked by unquenchablethirst 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Well, you being 14...you have the rest of your life to tell a girl you love her.
If you really do love her, and you mean it, not just so you can get in her pants...then tell her. Don't feel bad if she does not tell you she loes you back though. She might not be ready for that. You guys are young, and have a whole life ahead of you. Not to say that it woun't last for years to come. If you really love her and you feel lilke you should tell her, then by all means do. Hopefully she loves you too. I would hate to hear that someone so young got thier heart broken.
2006-09-29 03:22:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey! You don't know what real love is at your age! You think its love right now because it is a strong emotion that you are feeling for this girl, but it is only an emotion.
You have to do a lot more living before you really know what true love is.
Right now, what you can tell this girl is that you like her a whole lot and would like to go out with her. Then this way you can see if you and her can become boyfriend and girlfriend. Don't come on to her with this heavy I love you madly thing! This might not be something that she is ready to handle. Try just being friends, this always works.
2006-09-29 12:34:16 · answer #2 · answered by December Princess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If that girl is your mother, then yes! You should tell your mother you love her as soon as possible.
Otherwise no, if you love her and she loves you, wait 10 years to tell her. The words coming out of a 24yr old's mouth mean a whole lot more than coming out of a 14yr old's mouth. If you both really, truely love each other the 10 years will seem like a blink of the eye.
2006-09-29 10:52:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, i dont think so. Its very true to be in love as a child at this age, but its still a very subjective emotion, and liable to change. There no need to be all sappy and everything. Althoug being honest and telling her along the line that you love her is okay. But its not needed for your relationship to continue.
Just enjoy being her friend. This is the age where you learn to fine tune your adult relationship skills, which lead to bigger things like dating and marriage and sex. But you cant survive as an adult with adult relationships until you master friendship and infatuation first as a child.
You're right on cue, and perfectly normal. :) Just be a good friend and be honest.
2006-09-29 10:26:59 · answer #4 · answered by amosunknown 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
at 14 i highly doubt you know what real love for a woman is your too young.. its more like lust. at this age. wait and you will see you will be in love with another in a few weeks your a child. dont worry about love your too young
2006-09-29 10:32:45 · answer #5 · answered by kleighs mommy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Wait just a little longer. It sounds like you want to vent. Talk to your friends. If you haven't known her very long, it may be infatuation.
2006-09-29 10:20:36 · answer #6 · answered by tobeyp2005 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are too young for this. Wait!
2006-09-29 12:23:14 · answer #7 · answered by asouthwell28 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no leave it for a while and if you still like her tell her.
2006-09-29 11:09:58 · answer #8 · answered by sootster6001 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give it some time...
2006-09-29 11:13:53 · answer #9 · answered by KingRichard 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋