about 2 years ago i was raped!! the guy didnt use a condom and i got a std. it was treated but ever since then i dont like to wear shorts or skirts. will i ever get over this? i told my boyfriend, i told him that im not ready to have sex. since the attack i havent had sex im just scared. but what my question is will i ever feel good about my self and will i get over the short and skirt thing?
2006-09-29 03:09:04 · 7 answers · asked by mustangsweetthing 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You need to go to a counsellor
Go you your family GP and explain you need to see someone..they will help you through this
Good luck
2006-09-29 03:13:21 · answer #1 · answered by Miss Jinny ren 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am very sorry this happened to you. I think in time you will think about it less, but I don't know that you will ever "totally" get over it. I would suggest some one on one counselling with a professional. I know it seems lame, but if you do some research (and interviews) you can find one that can really help you with this. As for the sex, wait until you are ready, don't let anyone pressure you into it. You will only regret it. Let it come naturally. Talk about it if you can. I hope that you went to the police and they are going to prosecute the person who did this to you. I know it is hard, but you need to try to prevent this from happening to someone else. Think of how it made you feel.
2006-09-29 10:15:48 · answer #2 · answered by tuffy2112 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when i was 15 i was raped in my friends bathroom ,no one in the house could hear me shouting for help cause the music was on loud , for years i was scared and blamed myself but it wasn't my fault and the worst thing you can do is blame yourself ,do what you think is best .you don't have to change ,u haven't done any thing wrong ,i,m 23 now and i wish i had called the police or told my parents but i was scared to then but i wished that i did cause he might have done it to someone else
try not to worry
2006-09-29 10:17:40 · answer #3 · answered by A B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to hear about your horrible time hun . . . . . . . . . . but it has only been two years give yourself a chance . . . . .. . . . to even be with another guy ina relationship (sex or not) is a big step so concentrate on what you have achived and not what you can't achive just now!!!!! Good Luck x x x
2006-09-29 10:15:45 · answer #4 · answered by Very Sexy Vixen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not advising you to go on having sex, but I think you should try n let the past be past and head for the present okay?.There's greatness within you.
2006-09-29 10:49:18 · answer #5 · answered by blue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
these things take time lots of time you will get over it but at your own pace just keep talking about it with him and friends the more you discuss your feelings the sooner you can recover.
2006-09-29 10:13:33 · answer #6 · answered by benny619 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sorry to hear that, did you go to any counseling afterwards? that may help your problem, good luck
2006-09-29 10:14:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋