I had a friend that i really looked up to and confided alot of things in esp about this guy who i really really liked and was very important to me at the time for over 2 years...and she encouraged me to continue to like him and get to know him better....
I thought i gave up on him, only realised too late that i still was not over him when one day she told me that she and he got engaged. No one even knew that they were going out.
she didn't even have the courtesy nor cared enough about my feelings to be honest about it.... i thought we were good friends and i looked up to her like an older sister before!
How would you feel? How can I get over this?
I really want this issue out of my life asap but my feelings of betrayal and anger continues....
2006-09-29 02:57:04 · 5 answers · asked by kataomoi 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Well guess you know who your friends are. You shouldn't even spend any more wasted time even thinking about this. Surround yourself with only positive. There's this thing called Karma and trust me they will get theres. But they don't deserve to even be a thought in your head.
The only example I can give is that my boss was really stressing me out and I got really sick and run down. I havef two beautiful kids and a wonderful husband and it was taking away from that. I woke up one day and decided I wasn't going to let an ass ruin what should be the best part of my day with my kids. I only surround myself with positive family, friends and influences. No negativity if at all I can help it.
That's what you need right now. Trust me do this and it will build your confidence so you can get on with the wonderful like you are meant to have. Stop wasting time.
2006-09-29 03:07:34 · answer #1 · answered by Kimberly R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
AM a girl like u 2 and i can see how u r feeling . just belive me dat guy is not yours, be urslef and be happy 4 ur friend.God time is the best urs is on the way,tell her a friend on net is happy 4 her.
2006-09-29 03:12:33 · answer #2 · answered by damstar2006 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you can try to meet new people, also get your mind on other things keep yourself occupied with other things. always have other things to do so you dont think about it. i'v been in a situation kinda like this and always having things to do helped me... and having new friends helped me to
2006-09-29 03:05:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do my best to try and forgive them, and move on.
2006-09-29 02:59:27 · answer #4 · answered by WC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
write a nasty letter..put her down..it will make u happy
2006-09-29 05:45:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋