I think she likes me too. Problem is she lives in my house, and I'm finding it difficult holding back whenever my wife is out of town. I need urgent advice. Please, h-e-l-p!!!
2006-09-29 02:35:40 · 21 answers · asked by Bobo N 1 in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
Grow up. Know the problem goes deeper than that. You are not a happy person, or just stright up a jerk to hurt the people you care about the most. If you give in you will lose both your wife and her sister.
2006-09-29 02:47:35 · answer #1 · answered by valarie l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to ask her to move out, preferably somewhere that's not next door. And avoid being alone with her at all times. Keep reminding yourself of the hurt you would cause your wife if things did go any further. Until sister-in-law does move out - try and spend more time alone with your wife, take her out for romantic evenings, and remember why you fell in love with her in the first place. Leave your memory of sister-in-law far behind, she's not worth risking everything for.
2006-09-29 10:04:19 · answer #2 · answered by Butterscotch 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She needs to move, and you need to take a cold shower. I'm not trying to be a smart a$$, but seriously, you can not have that type of distraction in your house. And if she's coming on to you, and you decide to take her up on the offer, then things will end badly. The sister in law will feel guilty and so will you. Someone will tell, and your wife will choose her sister over you. Bottom line, SHE HAS TO GO!
2006-09-29 09:44:56 · answer #3 · answered by love 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Temptation will always be there, but that does not mean that you act on them. Stay away from her and avoid ever being alone with her. You need to always keep in the forefront that she is totally off limit to you because you are married and more so to her sister.
Besides the minute you realized things were heading down this road you should have done everything to get her out of your home.
2006-10-01 01:18:09 · answer #4 · answered by solgiver 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her to leave. Tell your wife the Sis-in-law is hurting your marriage by living in the house that should be for the two of you and have her support you in getting the temptation out. Then I suggest a bit of therapy. Personal and marital.
2006-09-29 10:11:20 · answer #5 · answered by Angela B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my you have a problem. She needs to move out, this will ruin your marriage. Guarenteed!!!!!!!! YOu and your wife need counseling to find out where the spark went in your marriage, and how to get it back. If you feel that strongly about your sister in law then there is something not right in your marriage. Your sister in law is just as much at fault as you and she should know better and remove herself.
2006-09-29 09:50:59 · answer #6 · answered by dmgoldsbo7 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get her out of your house and tell your wife about how you are feeling. Is this worth loosing your marriage over? Are you happy with your wife? Is it just your sister-in-law or do other women make you want to be unfaitful? You need to get her out of your house if you don't think you can controll yourself. Think about how you would feel if you had a friend or brother staying in your house and your wife cheated on you with them. You are married and you and your wife need to be alone in your home so you need to eliminate the temptation unless you are a big jerk and you just want to cheat on your wife with her sister then you can go on Jerry Springer to tell her.
2006-09-29 11:13:17 · answer #7 · answered by micah z 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a very serious problem. Does your wife love you? If no, you can do whatever you want. Your sister in law might fell the same way as you. Does you screw your own sister, cousins or whatever? Treat her like your own sister under a roof. Most importantly don't ever get drank in your house; ban alcohol in your house. Dranker can do stupid things and regret for life.
2006-09-29 12:39:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Please just know this a trick of the devil ,to destroy a good marriage ,you loved your wife or you would not have married her .you need to some how have her to move out why is she there ?? talk to your wife tell her you are not comfortable her being there when she is away ,you dont want rumors started.please dont do this I promise it is only a trick of satan .and take my advise and trust me it will come out if you do fool around with her it always does and her being a sister she will feel guilty and tell the devil is after you bad ,knock him down call your wife talk to her and maybe even talk to sister In law tell her you are not comfortable with this .and that you love your wife ,please be one of the good husbands say no .
2006-09-29 09:44:18 · answer #9 · answered by Holly 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't even think of acting on what you feel, that would be totally wrong.
I think the best thing to do is try and find a way of suggesting to your wife about her moving out.
2006-09-29 09:45:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋