She's 3 years younger than me. Me and my hubby live in his mom's house (we'll be moving out to our own house in 2009). I work in another town and only get back on weekends. She'll take my clothes when I'm not there. I take them back but she does it again!
2006-09-29 02:33:33 · 36 answers · asked by sontoloyo11 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Go to a magic shop, pick up a pack of "Itch powder" put it in some of the clothes she has been using, especially the underwear. She'll be in for a surprise!
2006-09-29 02:46:15 · answer #1 · answered by Hammer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2009 that is a long time for someone to be wearing your clothes including your underwear. that is just plan nasty you could get an STD. My advice is to get a lock for you room. know if sound like to much. But I sure you have already talk to her and express how you feel about her wearing your things. So this is the next step. Or move out sooner then 2009. I guessing your there because your saving money, but a peace of mind is sometime more important. (That whole underwear this is gross)
2006-09-29 02:39:45 · answer #2 · answered by Proverbs 31 women 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, no wonder they think they have the right to drive your car. You are living with them. Are you paying part of their mortgage? Do you pay 1/2 of the utilities bills? Do you clean the house? Do you buy the groceries? If you aren't doing any of these things then the LEAST you can do is let them drive your car.
As to your sister-N-law wearing your tell her to knock it off! Put a doorknob with a lock on your bedroom door that only you have the key to. When his mom asks why you are doing that then tell her that you are tired of her daughter encroaching upon your things to include your personal undergarments. That is really too much and your husband needs to speak up!
2006-09-29 03:07:46 · answer #3 · answered by GrnApl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of direction that's ok. Why do you think of they're called PANTYhose? As a procedures a being unhygienic, I quite have worn pantyhose without panties for over 2 many years and in no way have had a yeast an infection. I placed on them universal without panties, no longer in easy terms on activities.
2016-12-12 17:19:40 · answer #4 · answered by herzog 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit her down and tell her in no uncertain terms what you feel are correct and incorrect boundaries, what you are okay with her borrowing and what she cannot use. She probably looks upto you and just wants to be like you. MAybe take her out and help her pick a few things? Then just to be safe leave a small note on top of your clothes (in drawer?) SAying-HEy girl, don't forget what we talked about!!! Keep it light, and remember it is only clothing, and she is family now.
2006-09-29 02:45:28 · answer #5 · answered by Jep 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you said you take them back, but have you TOLD her not to wear your clothes? I would hope so! If you've told her and she does it anyway, put a lock on your closet! Don't be too angry with her! First of all she is your sister-in-law. She must think you have good taste, or she wouldn't bother wearing your things. It sounds like she might be a teenager, and maybe she really looks up to you. Be stern, but don't be mean. In ten years, you will both look back and laugh!
2006-09-29 02:40:13 · answer #6 · answered by rebecca_sld 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What does your husband think of this? If it bother you and its upsetting you let him know it and have him have to word with her it is afterall his sister. If he's not man enough to stand up for you then...go directly to her. Let her know that its not acceptable... that you work hard for your clothes and dont appreciate her using them. Tell her you'll willingly give her clothing that you no longer want etc...but that she is NOT to keep taking your clothes. 2009 is a long time away..sure you can hang in that long? Maybe re-think that one...and go rent for a while. You are patient...but dont be a suck and let her walk all over you...your husband should be helping you sort out this mess..... men!!!
2006-09-29 02:42:49 · answer #7 · answered by Lynne B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Step up to the plate and express to her your feeling. Simply tell her that you do not want her wearing your clothes especially your underwear thats just unsanitary. If that doesnt work I suggest you not make them accessable by locking them up or renting a storage room since you're only there on the weekends. Good luck.
2006-09-29 02:41:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
before you leave on monday or sunday night put itching powder in your underwear drawer. wash them friday night when you get back.
keep your clothes at where you stay during the week.
send her your cleaning bill.
take all of her clothes with you to where you stay during the week (as well as your own) so she has to spend her hard earned money on new - every day. it will get expensive.
bring home on weekends only what you need. pack it in a backpack and keep it with you.
walk into her room when she's in there and start going thru her closet and drawers (with greasy hands) and touch everything you see.
2006-09-29 02:43:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a serious invasion of privacy. Not much you can do about it though as long as you live there, unless you can obtain some kind of furniture that you can lock up. Of course, you could start doing the same to her and see how she likes it. Turn about, they say, is fair play.
2006-09-29 02:40:11 · answer #10 · answered by harridan5 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋