Last night my Mom gave me break from the kids and I went to my neighbors house for a glass of wine. We were sitting on the porch just realxing. She stays home with her kids, but on her behalf, she does things I wouldn't even consider...some things are just for men to do and thats it. SHe does the lawn, takes out garbage, she even shovels snow....no,no,no...never. I'm single again and I still refuse, I figure there still has to be one man left in the world that will work for pizza and beer:) Anyway, her husband comes home close to 9:00 asking whats for dinner, why didn'tyou bring my beer up from the basement frig, what did you do today? Hello! do you not see your spotless house? The only dirty laundry in that house is whats on their backs and you can eat off their floors! Then he starts... I need an asprin, my head hurts... rub my back...then he asks if I want to meet his brother....um, no. So I left and on my way out I heard her ask why he always has to scare me away.
2006-09-29 02:18:15 · 14 answers · asked by sasha 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
By the way girls....when I find one who works for pizza and beer I'll post his name, address and phone number:)
2006-09-29 02:50:03 · update #1
Wow im suprised you has no interest in meeting the brother. If they are anything alike he sounds like one hell of a catch.
Call me old fashioned i believe a man takes care of the outside of the house and the handy needs on the inside. The woman should keep the inside of the house clean and cook the meals, unless of course both spouses work outside the house then the inside work should be split 50-50.
Your girlfriend is at fault for not putting her foot down about this stuff at the beginning. As for the beer that is the most ridiculous thing ive ever hear unless of course he doesn t know where the fridge is..LOL
2006-09-29 02:40:40 · answer #1 · answered by Chris F 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I know this was just for this question was just for the girls, but I do agree with you that it is an unwritten rule that it is man's job to take care of those duties.
I do not agree that it should be expected and that no appreciation is deserved. I everything mentioned above but on big projects I do get help and I show my appreciation by trying to help her out whenever I can with the things that she normally does. If she's had a long day at work or something, i will volunteer to cook dinner, or clean up the house, or anything else that needs to be done.
I just think that that working together and helping each other is a good practice.
Didn't mean to butt in, just my two cents....take it or leave it.
2006-09-29 02:30:01 · answer #2 · answered by bmaldon04 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
marriage is what u make it. apparently she has allowed her husband 2 be like that and that is what she wants in a marriage.
personally he would get told where 2 go, but I have no problem doing things 4 my man when he comes home after a long day. but ask dont whine. if I say get it urself well then we know what u should do lol.
there r men out there that do there part, n there r men out there that think there part is working n nothing else. get 2 know the man u want 2 be with, n u will not get stuck with one u do not know.
good luck
2006-09-29 02:26:40 · answer #3 · answered by Lady Geo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some women do these things because their man is to lazy to do it and to avoid an arguement they just do it and keep there mouth shut. What's the point men don't care about a spotless house they just want their dinner cooked, a cold beer, and silence.
2006-09-29 02:23:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i do the lawn and all the other stuff like that, an i work as well, but this is because i like to do this, it is my choice, but i no of a few man who are like that, and they all suck if u ask me, i work hard and i still do other thing's with out the whining, im mean really does it get u anywhere in life, no not really, she needs to make him understand though that she is better then that, and should not hve to put up with it, but if she does then im sorry to say it is her own falt, an just because he is not nice, does not men the the brother is the same ok.have fun
2006-09-29 02:34:01 · answer #5 · answered by louise 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Damn does that guy have it made.When I was married I did the lawn,garbage,snow shoveling and cooked took care of the cars.Hell still do all that for my stbx except for the garbage.I think it has to do how the man was brought up as a kid.
2006-09-29 02:24:32 · answer #6 · answered by jeff402006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-06 09:09:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing worst
I think that whining should be #3 cause for divorce
#1 is abuse of anykind
#2 is bad in bed a horrid lover is the wordt person youcan spent your night with
#3 whining
#4 cheating
2006-09-29 03:35:09 · answer #8 · answered by waiting for baby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ughhh sounds pretty pathetic to me. What is wrong with your friend....lol....She needs to tell him to do **** for himself. I would never be able to deal with that. He thinks women should bow down to him thats obvious. Thinks women are inferior to him. I guess to each is own,,,,shes the one married to him not you. Or maybe hes abusive and you just dont know about it. Kinda sounds that way to me. Nothing worse than a whiny man.
2006-09-29 02:23:31 · answer #9 · answered by michelle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
different strokes for different folks. apparently they have a good thing for themselves, she works at home and he brings in cash. i wish my husband was like that. i'm sure he realizes that she does twice as much work as he does. as long as she's happy with their situation i guess everything's lovely.
i don't think he's whining, he's just reminding her to hold up her part of the family work force. if that means playing fetch that's their business.
2006-09-29 02:26:46 · answer #10 · answered by Quociana L 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋