2006-09-29 02:14:56 · 46 answers · asked by boggidy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
She was a big party girl before i met her...drugs and sex....now i came into her life and she says she cares about me and never wants me to leave but she is scared to "settle down"...so the other day she leaves around 11:00 p.m. and told me she was gonna go hangout w/ richie (they have had a past...they partied together alot)..they hooked-up and now i don't know what to do, does it mean she doesn't love me or what....I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO....im freakin out should i leave her all together or just put distance between us and wait...i care about her...im scared to leave her...PLEASE HELP ME
2006-09-29 03:54:06 · update #1
girls cheat because they aren't getting what they need emotionally. it is possible to love a person you cheat on, but it's impossible to have respect for them and still cheat on them
2006-09-29 02:16:10 · answer #1 · answered by notyours 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well of course its possible. Wed all like to think that well if she really loved me she wouldnt have done that ect , however its not always that simple. Maybe she was really horny (lol) or drunk, or hooked up with an ex who knows. Everyone makes mistakes. She may very well love you and just screwed up. With that said lets be realistic. The saying once a cheater always a cheater does have some merrit behind it . Also even if you take her back or whatever your always ging to have that in the back of your mind.It will most likely affect any future relationship with her. Unless you have four kids together id dump her cheating *** so fast it makes her head spin and move on.She had her chance with you and screwed it up . Dont give her the chance to do it agin.good luck
2006-09-29 02:21:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is, but not the 'in love with you' in the way you might want.
Both men and woman are capable of this, but unfortunately it points to problems in the relationship....unless you have said
'yeah baby do what you want' and you both have an open relationship ( if thats the case then great). If not then I see that communication is probably a problem for both of you.
Sit down be honest and find out where you want to go from there.
Good luck
2006-09-29 02:21:00 · answer #3 · answered by Miss Jinny ren 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Come on, that is impossible!!
Unless the girl does not really love you.
To get this topic clear, let's see what love actually is:
You feel a sense of completeness when you are near the person you love.
You feel complete. There is no reason for you to find another boy who might not be as good as your ex.
In true love, that is not a possible thing to happen. Trust me.
2006-09-29 02:19:49 · answer #4 · answered by unquenchablethirst 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Not really no. When you are genuinely in love with somebody, you just aren't interested in other people, full stop. And you definitely wouldn't want to risk hurting them by messing around with someone else. She may like you a lot, and even have some real affection for you. But that's all it is. Sometimes people confuse their emotions.
2006-09-29 02:30:51 · answer #5 · answered by Butterscotch 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes...but it seem like she is mess-up emotionally and mentally so it would not be a good thing to be with this person for your own sake...Move on....not because you can't forgive but because YOU Will be hurt much more if you continue this relationship...
It's hard but cut your losses...have courage..there a parable about a little girl who was holding on to fake pearls and didn't let something better like real pearl in her life....you have to let go in order to find the real deal....
2006-09-29 02:21:47 · answer #6 · answered by Lovely B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is possible. However, you should find out the reason why she cheats; either physically or mentally or whatever the reason. If you think you still love her and willing to forgive her, work it out between you two. Otherwise, forget all about it and go on with your life.
2006-09-29 02:29:29 · answer #7 · answered by Daniel T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not! And those who say it is, they are idiots. Come on, are you a child? Don't you know when you love someone you don't even want to think about being with someone else? If she is cheating on you, she is not in love with you. If you believe her, you are the stupidist man I have ever seen. Now go and figure out how much she loves you.
2006-09-29 02:34:04 · answer #8 · answered by Harry thePotter 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is possible for a girl to cheat on you and still love you. It does, however, mean that there's something wrong with the relationship. Regardless of how much she loves you, it will be hard for you to understand why she cheated and to trust her fully again.
2006-09-29 02:20:46 · answer #9 · answered by Le_Roche 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
SOME TIMES WHEN U LOVE SOME ONE SO MUCH AND THEN U R LEFT WITH A MAN WHO IS NOT GIVING U WHAT U WANT WOMEN NORMALLY BECOME MORE SENSITIVE AND ALL THEY WANT IS AFFECTION. AND SOMETIMES WHEN A GUY GIVES HER THE AFFECTION THINGS END UP WITH SEX.
THAT DOESNT MEAN THAT SEE DOESNT LOVE U IT JUST MEAN THAT SHE IS NOT EMOTIONALLY SATIFIED AND A LITTLE EMPTY INSIDE AND JUST NEEDS TO FEEL UR LOVE.
YES U CAN LOVE AND CHEAT. BUT THEN THE GUILT IS THE PUNISMENT ENOUGH, IT DEGRADES U AND ASHAMES U.
2006-09-29 02:20:54 · answer #10 · answered by in ur face 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2006-09-29 02:17:01 · answer #11 · answered by mkjhfiuy 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋