3 years ago I met this guy online and we started talking. I was in kentucky and he in north carolinia. We decided to start dating. So 3 weeks later he drove up to Ky for my B-day and stayed at my dads house for the weekend. That weekend was nothing less than magical. we couldnt get enough of each other.Never been intimate either. something so much more. Any ways it was hard but the weekend ended neither of us wanted it to. we continued talking and saw each other for one more night 3 weeks later and after that we decided the distance wasnt working. well 3 years gone bye and we are still friends and talk all the time now i am back home in North carolinia and he is biking in colorado he will be back in dec i havent seen him for 3 years and dec will be the first time. he is the only guy who over 3 years and through all my bfs my feelings only got stronger Even when im with another guy i cant get him off my mind. my heart feels like he is the 1 but why and how. unfinished business or love?
2006-09-29 02:06:48 · 8 answers · asked by southernsweetie2023 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Being that you never got to spend huge quantities of time with him, he is still 100% ideal. You saw him when he looked his best, you read his prose via e-mail (probably very well written, sincere and laced with intense feelings). Because of this, he is still a fantasy that you had the opportunity to meet in real life. Unlike your current bf, you never got into any serious disagreements with this fantasy guy; you never saw him at his worst (mentally or physically); he writes and talks to you about everything good that's happening in his life, while neglecting to tell you what negative things he may be doing . . .
I do believe you are in love, but it's a fantasy that you're in love with. I really wish that you two would get serious and explore the feelings that at least you feel (and probably him as well). You two were very mature to realize distance doesn't work . . . I would tell him how you feel and see if one of you would be willing to take a chance and move to the other's hometown and explore further the feelings you have.
If you both DO get together, GOOD LUCK!!! Feelings that you describe, if real, do NOT come along all the time (you both may've found your soul mates!).
2006-09-29 02:17:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ever hear the old saying "Absence makes the heart grow fonder"? I would estimate that it is about 90% unfinished business & 10% love. Based on the details you have provided you didn't really date this guy for 2 months, it was more like 52 hours of actual time spent together. (One weekend, & one subsequent date). I am confused over one part of your detail.
Did you say you lived in Ky & HE lived in N. Carolina? Or are you now making N.C your home? If there's a chance that you are both going to be living in close proximity to each other later on in Dec, then you may want to consider trying regular dating with this guy to see if you can resolve the unfinished business one way or the other.
Until you have logged more, in person, time with this guy, you aren't going to know for sure if your feelings for him are real or imagined.
2006-09-29 02:26:09 · answer #2 · answered by No More 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he IS the one. Everything happens for a reason. Maybe that's why you met him online to begin with. First of all, does he feel the same way? If not, you'll have to move on. If so, are either of you willing or able to move to the other's state? Then the distance wouldn't be an obstacle. Good luck!
2006-09-29 02:12:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its not Love yet, But it seems your willing it to be Love. You should try and talk to him again, tell him you want to see him again and if he feels the same way go for it. Good luck.
2006-09-29 02:09:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok this means that u still love him and if he asked u if u would take him back u would say yeah b/c u grew2 him
2006-09-29 02:10:36 · answer #5 · answered by LACEY 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
unfinished poonanny! fo sho
2006-09-29 02:19:12 · answer #6 · answered by kornsap 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U r a potential stalker, seek help now
2006-09-29 02:09:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
simple ma its love
2006-09-29 02:41:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋