she is 12 year older than me, n having two kids, she loves me alot and me too. if smone is in somwhat same problem i have solution for both of us. mail me. thank u
2006-09-29 01:32:45 · 7 answers · asked by Rahul 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Ok, if she is married you are not "engaged". Maybe thats what you like to call it but if she is not free to marry you and her cannot be engaged. If she really loves you she will leave her husband and marry you. If not, find someone else.
2006-09-29 01:35:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cannot be serious with this question can you? As in a previous answer, you cannot be engaged to someone already married. Also if you two are doing this to the spouse you have now, why do you not think that you will not do it to one another in the future? Sounds to me like Lust instead of Love. What makes you think that you can just toss someone aside when you get tired of them? (spouse) You and she need to grow up and acquire some common sense. Remember, what goes around, comes around. By your question you say that "I have solution for both of us" If you have the solution why are you asking the question, and why am I answering the question? Also you do not give your address so anyone can mail you.?Look at the question you asked. If you put your address for the response please spell it right so we may be able to read it. Thanks.
2006-09-29 01:51:43 · answer #2 · answered by Ex Head 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We as adults use the word LOVE too freely,if you do not know how to step up you have to learn quickly,because women do not like it when men seem fickle minded even when it,s not your fault. you see they depend on their male counterpart for stability ,emotionally first and all the rest afterwords,she is 12 years older than you which switches the gender gap as for the age groups for male to female ,but this is the 20,s and love is all that matters,but the pressure is on you to do the bold move and unstuck the relationship from where it is at ,and when you do that you will put to the test those four letter words that you used so liberally in your question,the true growth of manhood comes from the way in which they handle every situation in a relationship,being calm ,collective and decisive,women may not like it at first but they love being led,lovingly of course,good luck
2006-09-29 02:13:06 · answer #3 · answered by delmy d 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are "involved" with a married woman. That would make you into a scumbag as far as married men are concerned. If she is not leaving her husband right now you are deluding yourself.
You are her F-Buddy. Get over yourself. If you could give her all the things a mate should including financial support she would have moved already.
2006-09-29 01:50:02 · answer #4 · answered by Flagger 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From my own person experiences and observing countless others the married person is usually "playing" both of the people he/she is involved with. They lie to you, they lie to their husband/wife. Why? They want to have it all. They want the best of both worlds. They want to pick what they like about their spouse AND get what they don't like from you. Please be careful and protect your heart from a person who cheats. If they will cheat with you they will also cheat ON YOU.
2006-09-29 01:53:30 · answer #5 · answered by Book Diva 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When is she scheduled to divorce? Once she divorces; you are free to live your life as you so describe. If she doesn't want to divorce... you're being played.
2006-09-29 01:57:29 · answer #6 · answered by E. Gads 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cool. she's married and u two are engaged? whoa.
2006-09-29 01:53:39 · answer #7 · answered by gweneth lynn paltfeir 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋