I feel really guilty because i considered my uncle as the father figure in my life and had alot of respect for him, but i found out that he was unfaithful to my aunt(who is my blood), i feel like he betrayed me and i feel like i am not even considering my aunt or their two children who are 4 and 5!
2006-09-29 01:29:35 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Don't feel bad for being impacted by this. It sounds like your uncle was an important part of your life. I am sure you will go through the natural grieving process just as you were their child. Divorce is hard. Surrond yourself with adults you love and trust and talk to them about this.
2006-09-29 01:33:13 · answer #1 · answered by Jewells 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
their marriage has NOTHING tyo do with you. You have no idea why he went off with another woman..have you considered that your Aunt may be a right cow and that he is better off without her? As for the children, again this has nothing to do with you, many kids grow up in families with divorce. Its no BIG deal as for you feeling betrayed..GROW UP and stop being so selfish and sorry for yourself. The decision to divorce was taken by them with ABSOLUTELY NO THOUGHT WHATSOEVER ABOUT YOU..YOUR OPINION IN THIS MATTER IS TOTALLY IRRELEVANT. You should love them both irrespective of what you feel they have "done" to you.If you can';t then cut off contact but above all stop interfearing and judging!!!!
2006-09-29 08:34:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well ur answer is in ur question that their children dont have problem that what is urs?
see this most happened event in life that when we love some one we think that one is our stronger side but ths thing is proved when that loved one no longer remains loved one so remove all tensions let them do what ever they wat to reply them only when they ask.
2006-09-29 08:35:34 · answer #3 · answered by Dhr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know how's ur feeling bout that. it happens to my uncle, when my father divorced my mum. mu uncle figured my dad as a perfect brother to be his idol. then he tried to kill my dad when dad cheat my mum. remember, dont let this matter dull your logic down.
2006-09-29 08:33:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋