I know a great guy who I really like, he's got a great job, very funny, would always be there for me, BUT, i just don't have that physical attraction for him. Don't know if I should pursue him or not.
2006-09-29 00:47:21 · 9 answers · asked by jeep 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If you don't have any romantic feelings for this guy, do him and yourself a favor, leave him alone, don't string him along and drop him again.
2006-09-29 00:51:28 · answer #1 · answered by WC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself this question...with whom have you had the longest relationship with? A friend or a lover?
That whole romantic love fades after a time. Unless you find the person truly repulsive, then the "spark" doesn't matter. My parents do still love each other and get along great. But do they have that spark? No. Once during a holiday visit, I was sitting on the couch with my mom while dad was in a recliner. I asked if I should move so that they could sit together and cuddle. I received the weirdest look from both of them.
2006-09-29 01:01:48 · answer #2 · answered by Thundercat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wish that I could tell you that the "spark" will come if you give it time. Unfortunately, you and I know that's simply not the case.
What usually happens is that the longer you continue to date someone you are not physically attracted to, the more frustrated you become with yourself for doing so.
Not to sound callous, but it is also less time you will have to find someone to whom you do have an attraction.
2006-09-29 00:54:38 · answer #3 · answered by Angela 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure. just gel .Think about what is realy great about him.physical attraction is not always the best part of the relationship.determine which is more important...attraction or great companionship.then maybe it will come back slowly.
2006-09-29 00:55:26 · answer #4 · answered by glovorzak 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, You may do something extraodinary.
Change pleces you got used to. Change car, music, appearence, freinds, your sex intentions. Or you may just cause intentially jelousness. It works.
Buy expensive things!!!
2006-09-29 01:05:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
not if yiu are not physically attracted
2006-09-29 00:50:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF YOUR NOT ATTRACTED I THINK IT'S A WASTE OF TIME .
2006-09-29 00:57:40 · answer #7 · answered by Missunderstood 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way.
2006-09-29 00:53:46 · answer #8 · answered by Toto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
did he love u????? if YES!!! catch up him
2006-09-29 00:50:58 · answer #9 · answered by love_in_u 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋