I cry and then laugh...I feel bad for this!!!! What is wrong with me???
2006-09-29 00:29:54 · 5 answers · asked by tink 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Everybody handles death in a different way. Don't be ashamed of how you react to it.
2006-09-29 00:32:11 · answer #1 · answered by sarah071267 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We have to accept that there is a circle of life, it starts at birth and ends at death for ALL of us. When the first leaf falls from the tree in autumn, the others don't cry, nor laugh, they just accept that they will follow. It is the natural cycle. Remember your lost one for all the times you shared, cherish that, hold on to that. You have lost a little bit of yourself in loosing this person, so do weep
and do mourn, but remember spring comes with new flowers and the tree will bloom again!One person dies every minute we are on earth and two are born per minute. It is just the way of life.
2006-09-29 07:39:56 · answer #2 · answered by mortierella 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
God sends Souls on this earth by the birth of a new born child.
Christ said that "you must be born of the water and the spirit.
In my opinion, when God sent this family member, he/she was to good a soul to have to live on this miserable earth, and to go through all the strife and haterd of mankind. So God sent this child to be born and then called her home to be with Him and therefore fulfilling the saying of Christ about being "born of the water..." This child is with the Lord now, happy and content with no cares or worries forever more. Hope this has brought you some comfort in your loss. yes laugh and think about the ggod times, and cry also, because it is human nature to miss a loved one. You are doing nothing wrong my friend, and God in heaven knows that, after all He created us all in His image, with feelings that He gave us, so who better to understand us but the Creator.
2006-09-29 08:25:24 · answer #3 · answered by Ex Head 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a part of grieving and will take time! You cry because you miss this person and you laugh because they bought you joy! Over time it will get easier,I know from experience!
2006-09-29 07:37:57 · answer #4 · answered by kelley1031 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry for your loss but nothing you do can change things. If you show emotions thats no big deal, it is very natural. You will always have this loss but time heals all wounds and you will be able to go on with your life.
2006-09-29 07:36:44 · answer #5 · answered by Val 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋