how do you leave some1 you love bt cant live with lies
2006-09-29 00:03:48 · 20 answers · asked by purdy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
go out for a pint and dont come back ever, works every time
2006-09-29 00:05:47 · answer #1 · answered by Monkeyphil 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Have you tried everything you can to make them stop lying. If so, decide where you're going to go before you sit down to tell him. When you tell him, explain, you love him but you deserve better than what he has to offer. Lies will kill your love in the end anyway. If you haven't planned where you're going to, he'll think you're bluffing and won't take it seriously. I would have my bags packed and would just wait on him getting home. I would tell him and then leave. You never know, time without you might make him see the error of his ways and he might come to his senses.
I hope it all works out for you because love that goes wrong is the most painful emotion there is
2006-09-29 00:22:16 · answer #2 · answered by mother knowledge 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask yourself do you love them enough to leave them/ if you do love them enough to let them go you have to for your own sanity and happiness. Why live being unhappy. You live once and only once dont be sad be happy. Maybe a seperation for a while might do the trick in making them realise that you cant live the way you are living right now. Anything is worth a go especially if you love each other.
Good luck
2006-09-29 01:03:31 · answer #3 · answered by Secretguk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I left my husband of 14 years for the same reason, still loved him desperately but was fed up with the lies. I just had to tell myself that i couldnt stand anymore years being lied to and that he would never change.I did get over it and am glad we are not together anymore. good luck x
2006-09-29 00:38:56 · answer #4 · answered by Helen D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You find yours self respect and walk that butt of yours out the door.
Dont think about it too much - you know you have to do it, so pack up your things and leave.
From your past questions this guy of yours is a grade A wanker - so just go - you deserve better than him and you know it. Just do it! xx
2006-09-29 01:40:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't trust anything they say anymore, then there is no use spending a lot of time talking to them about it. They would say anything to change your mind, including lie. For me, it would be a quick, clean break and get far away for a while. Good luck
2006-09-29 00:07:46 · answer #6 · answered by John 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you manage to love someone who lies all the time?
2006-09-29 00:07:20 · answer #7 · answered by yes darling 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you do what makes you feel healthy. when you stay do you feel happy ??then how you are feeling when you are involved with this person should be the motivating factor.stop waddling in sh*t. get up and get with your life, you can't truly love a liar, you want to love, and that's good but don't convince yourself you love this liar.get out.
2006-09-29 00:13:21 · answer #8 · answered by punkin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi im living that too he cheated on me and he is making no affort to make up for it it feels like there is nothing to stay for apart from i love him i feel like leaving him every day just havent got the bottle i guess
2006-09-29 00:06:51 · answer #9 · answered by flowerpot 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out quick . . . . . . . . . . . . . and no you won't be able to change them, you will realise it is for the best in the long run, it won't seem like it today!!!! Trust me tho you will end up miserable if you stay!!!! xx
2006-09-29 00:16:56 · answer #10 · answered by Very Sexy Vixen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋