2006-09-29 00:02:29 · 12 answers · asked by matrimony x 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If the family members are open minded and accomodative, ideally there should not be any problems.
If there could arise any problems, they will be mainly due to diffrent cultures and rituals.
2006-09-29 00:10:29 · answer #1 · answered by Raj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After marriage love, arranged or intercaste, one major problem that the couple faces is the conflict with their spouse's parents. In laws problem in marital relationship has become very common, due to lack of adjustment from both the sides. But then life is all about challenges, which you have to overcome. So, one should not allow in laws marriage problem to ruin their most beautiful relation.
Tips to Cope with In Laws
Show respect to your in laws, even if you think that they don't really deserve it.
Don't criticize your in laws, even if you don't like any of their habits or attitude. If your partner speaks something against them, just listen but don't give your personal comments.
Set a defined boundary with your in-laws, when it comes to issues concerning your feelings and thoughts.
When you think that now situation is going out of control, just put a stop to it by saying no to your in-laws.
2006-09-29 00:30:38 · answer #2 · answered by Rahul 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In staying with a joint family nothing specific could be attributed on an inter-caste marriage. However, the only problem which could arise in future as to fixing the caste of the next generation.
2006-09-29 00:08:38 · answer #3 · answered by mkm 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Same caste marriages don’t work with a lot of unexpected problems in joint family. if it happens to be inter caste marriage then one more problem is added to the existing ones.
2006-09-29 03:06:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its all depend on mutual understanding in family. Husband should take lead to educate wife regarding house customs & how to follow & wife should get it adjusted fast leaving her previous habits. Then I think there will not be any problem.
2006-09-29 00:10:44 · answer #5 · answered by narendra k 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be well aware of what u r doing.if you are worried about the problems better not to marry.The more unstable u r, the more the problems.Ask your family members and see want they say?.This is not the right place to ask this question.
2006-09-29 06:56:59 · answer #6 · answered by speed 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi
i think there should n't be a problem to stay in a joint family,be good with Ur in laws and practise to listen them,if they r wrong or right,after when they cool down try to talk with them calmly.
2006-09-29 08:07:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be like mouse happy to be together. Treat the lows like don't exist.
2006-09-29 00:39:59 · answer #8 · answered by Toto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It should be very peaceful if all are respecting each others value, it is similar to waliking on the wall.
2006-09-29 00:06:30 · answer #9 · answered by Devaraj A 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
please don't to intercaste marrige as experianced person i am telling u.
if the girl is high caste u will loser always. even if you love her so much.
2006-09-29 00:22:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋