Does the size of your bank account matter in how much she loves you?

Question

Does how much you have change her feelings for you?

Answer 1

If there is a direct connection between how much money you have and how she feels about you: that's not love. Most women want to be proud of the men they are with, so sure, there is some feeling about what he does for a living. But a woman's love transcends all social categories if it is freely given. She will love you with all her heart, even if you are down to your last dime. In fact, depending on why you are broke, she may even love you more.

Answer 2

I would say, in a idealistic world, I would think and hope the answer would be know. However, this is a real world, and a sense of security for someone is very important...how you save, or get that bank account, is a manifestation of the type of person you are and what you may be in the future, so Im sure it may have some influence on how her feelings are for you..

Answer 3

it really shouldn't matter at all. if this girl gives the impression that it does then you should probably think twice about dating her, people should love each other for who they are ,not how healthy the bank account or how good looking etc . no, the amount of money you have should not change her feelings for you , if it does then she is a very shallow person and not worthy of your love or time

Answer 4

Depends why she married u.. if she fell in love with ur money or for you..

Money definately can stress out a marriage if there are lack of funds.. dont get me wrong.. financial reasons have broken up alot of marriages but its usually the stress of lack of money that makes people take it out on each other..

Some women rather be totally miserable in a marriage because their husbands make alot of money and they are use to living a certain way so they rather be in a unhealthy environment instead of having to start all over again at the bottom..

But if she truely loves u.. then ur wallet is just a + or a - to her.. not what she bases her marriage to u on..

Answer 5

Absolutly! In general women look at the income potential of a prospective mate as a determining factor in their emotional connectiveness twards that person. This is derived from the base instinct of a woman to find a mate that can provide for them.

If you find a woman that can love you for you not your bank account hurry up and marry that one. That woman is a rare find indeed and if she is not lying about everything she says to you, all the better.

Answer 6

There are females out there who only stay with a spouse while he has money in the bank -- go through that bank account, and then divorce and move onto the next male with money and bleed the new one dry

Answer 7

If she is a real woman and really loves you, your bank account shouldn't matter one damn bit. If it does then she isn't worthy of you or your love....When I was dating my husband he never had a penny in his account (granted he was 16, but he did have a job) and I still loved him...Today he works harder to make sure that all of our needs are met. We are by no means rich in the monetary (sp) sense but we are comfortable....And I do work outside the home as well.

Answer 8

True love is when you don't have a bank account and she's still there!

Answer 9

From my experience, YES.
The fatter your bank account, the more they put out for you.
The most ugly of men suddenly become more handsome.

Answer 10

i'm a man i hav to say even tho what u said
is largely true we hav to remember men also determine
the worth of a woman msotly on looks,
physical looks may not be cash but they are a kind of
material wealth.

so men are equally guilty, we coud all use a little
more spirituality