i mean there is sooo much lying and cheating anymore,how do u know when to really trust them??
2006-09-27 23:23:49 · 22 answers · asked by Mary C 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It is hard to trust people especially if u have been hurt in the past..I need to stop being so nice and toughen up.
2006-09-28 00:33:33 · answer #1 · answered by fajita 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not just men in relationships. Nowadays it's hard to trust anyone. A lot of people no longer know the meaning of respect and loyalty towards the people you're suppose to trust. I'm talking about boyfriends, friends, and unfortunately, family. Some boyfriends cheat and lie, friends stab you in the back, and family will (sometimes) take advantage of you and hurt you as well. And I'm sorry to say this, but girls tend to be more cruel about things like this. Of course, there's exceptions. Not everyone lies, cheats, and betrays you. You just gotta learn to spot the "bad" people and put your faith in those who you think aren't trying to screw you over.
2006-09-27 23:33:00 · answer #2 · answered by T.G. 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes..of course..But if we trully open our hearts to that person..
i can assure you will feel the trust.
Theres 2 types of unfaithfulness...(at least for me)which will cause lost of trust :
1)Theres the classic LUST - only for sex (no feelings involved) which normally men experience
2) Heart - where u fall in love with someone (Feelings involved) - which normally experienced by women
so, men also face the same problem as us..
but its all in ur heart.. when u get a hunch .. there must be something he done...
Its true..follow ur instinct.. but dont act on it..wait..
believe this :
"What goes around comes around"
2006-09-27 23:38:19 · answer #3 · answered by kim_stolz 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is not easy trusting people these days. What I do is accept what ever the person says. When it does happens that it turns out to be a lie then it becames difficult even accepting the persons words.
But we have to be cautioned just don't trust blinkly.
2006-09-28 01:05:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women lie and cheat too you know,or didn't you know?I don't trust women-just like you don't trust men,there is good and bad in all the world between men AND women,try not to be so one sided.
2006-09-27 23:44:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't if you are smart the same as men so not trust pretty girls. Ugly and fat ones are usually so grateful you can abuse the trust but the good looking ones are usually cheats
2006-09-27 23:29:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well that's a negative attitude so your already getting off to a bad start. no one is perfect and i'm sure women have lied about something somewhere(age weight) too! If you can't trust someone your with why are you with them? let the next person know right off the bat DON'T SCREW WITH MY HEART! it won't gaurantee they won't break it but they know you mean buisness
2006-09-27 23:30:48 · answer #7 · answered by keoni_21 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i don't trust anyone fully, especially men, its down to my dad leaving when i was a child Ive been told, but we have to try sometimes, i give everyone one chance, but i never fully trust, not even my brother
2006-09-27 23:33:03 · answer #8 · answered by trouble 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well its hard to tell who is honest and who is not.
Some time we form a negative image to later discover we were wrong.
Be positive about any one who enters your life with time you will learn your self what the person is all about.
Being tooo naive in any relationship can be self harming.
2006-09-27 23:29:31 · answer #9 · answered by sunlight 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes...its so hard to trust anyone these days. there is so much tempation out there and men just can't stop looking at other women all the time. its not very comforting, is it? sometimes i wonder why we even bother.....
2006-09-28 02:51:40 · answer #10 · answered by Katy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋