One of my frined Married a lady 7 years elder than him. After marrage he came to know that she is divorcee and has a male childe and is 7 years elder. He says that before marrage she did not stated any thing to him and we sexually involved because of her initative to do so and we involved insex before marrage. After merrage they shifted a flat provided to his wife by her company in which she works. Now she only pays rent of the flat and in her clothes and all other expenses beared by my friend. Two month ago his neighbour stated to him that a engineer use to come and sits in the house for 2 to 4 hrs. even regularly. When he asked to his wife she First refused and than admitted that once she went with him to the hospital and said that she can not discontinue to go out with him or any other person as she has many work of outside. My friend is quite despite the above facts because he do not want t almost regularly and she use to say to my friend to go away from the home.Should he left her
2006-09-27 22:57:38 · 7 answers · asked by Question 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well, does he want to leave her? Why is he with her now? He seems to be coming back with excuses about his own 'shaddy' actions. Maybe he was a gold digger himself and is getting what he asked for. He needs to find his motive in this marriage and then he will know what to do.
2006-09-27 23:06:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here there is no question of any moral aspects.problem can be solved easily. First check that how much your friend is dependent on his wife, If both of them ready to detach emotionally from eachother,then better separate.
2006-09-28 06:29:58 · answer #2 · answered by bigboss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what is the pointing in staying with her? I think your friend wife is not person who is committed and work for marriage. marriage is based on honesty if it is not there it wont survive longer.
2006-09-28 06:25:56 · answer #3 · answered by bebu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on if he wants to try to work things out honesty and communication are missing and too often people dont work hard enough at their marriage which does take hard work!
2006-09-28 06:07:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL WHAT YOUR FRIEND WANTS WHETHER HE WANTS TO BREAK THE RELATIONSHIP OR HE IS HAVING ALSO SOME WEAKNESS. BUT AS FOR AS I AM CONCERN THERE ARE SUFFICIENT REASONS TO RUN AWAY.
2006-10-01 00:19:22 · answer #5 · answered by RAMAN IOBIAN 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he must leave her , she is a cheater . look for another wife to have a good family
2006-09-28 06:04:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes, leave.
2006-09-28 06:03:35 · answer #7 · answered by sakura4eternity 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋