everything seems back to normal except now he won't show me any sign of affection no kiss when he's off to work and no sex.(not that we ever had that much anyway)why is he holding such a grudge?i feel like he hates me
2006-09-27 22:42:08 · 20 answers · asked by poptrash 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
yes he is holding a grudge, you need to talk about his behaviour with him
2006-09-27 22:47:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your statement clearly justifies that you both had a stupid argument a week ago. As such, it could be the result of that unplesant happening for the indifference of your husband. Console him in a manner he accepts, so that everything will be washed away with your that consoling effect. Have you got any valid point to feel that he hates you? If so, make that too resolved with mutual discussion.
2006-09-27 22:51:00 · answer #2 · answered by mkm 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You must talk frankly to your husband why he has changed in his affection.What kind of stupid argument do you have ?You ,must ask him for explanation why he is holding such a grudge and he feel like hate you.You must have a 2 ways and open communication between you and your husband.You must discuss it heart by heart deliberately.I hope you will have a best solution in a near future.
2006-09-27 22:52:41 · answer #3 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's throwing a tantrum.. if u have kids u know not to play into a child that is having a tantrum because all it does is empower them to use that tactic again and again to get their way.. instead u act as if u could care less..and go about ur day as normal and as if u dont recognize their ill behavior.. even if its driving u crazy.. eventually they'll get tired, and realize that its not getting ur attention ..and unfortunately possibly try another tatic.. but if u act as if they dont phase u.. eventually u get the power back in ur court.. to show these types of behaviors arent acceptable..
2006-09-27 23:09:17 · answer #4 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to the beauty parlor and stuff and go to dinner with him.if that doesnt work then try talking to him and ask him whats up.may be hes having an afair with ya friend.or may be ur just ugly.but if ur not then hes having an afair.that means hes a jerk.dump him like dump in a gutter.and find a new husband.liz had 9 and jlo had 3 so its never to late to change
2006-09-27 22:54:14 · answer #5 · answered by nasser_matrix 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men are not comfortable when they are forced into a position of having to think. Life is much simpler on a day-to-day basis without any deep thoughts intruding. Also, men can only do one thing at a time as a general rule. He is probably annoyed that you have forced him out of his comfort zone. Sit him down and tell him you are sorry you stressed him out. He should then go back into his normal dull daze.
2006-09-28 03:15:58 · answer #6 · answered by acmeraven 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like the issue was never resolved.....whenever there is a dispute there has to be some type of resolution to it.....even if it's just agreeing to disagree and respect the others opinion...when my wife and I get into an arguement that is getting out of hand one of us will eventually realize that its a big arguement over nothing and calm things down. If one of us say or do something that hurts the other we will acknowledge that it didnt matter if we understood why it hurt them, it only matters that they did.
2006-09-28 00:48:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get the house to yourself,dress in something that makes you feel sexy,wait for him on the bed with candles leading up the stairs,if hes the lovely type.
If hes the hard screw type then wear something hot,wait for him to come home open the door pin him againes the wall kissing,i think you know the rest!!!
Oh then tell him that your sorry,even if your not,also tell him that the making up was great!
2006-09-27 22:46:46 · answer #8 · answered by kittypinkchuck 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Leave him a clothes trail all the way to the bathroom where he will find a nice hot bath awaiting him, and you, ready to soap him up and make up! Have candles lit and his favorite beverage ready and waiting! It is a simple thing to do and he will appreciate it after a hard days work! Good Luck!!!
2006-09-28 09:35:38 · answer #9 · answered by busymomof4 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's probably still cranly. guys can be VERY moody when in an argument. Either have it out with him, or let it be. The choice is yours. Just don't make another argument out of it, it will only lead to more tears. Goodluck
2006-09-27 22:45:20 · answer #10 · answered by Nicky 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My dear have a talk tell him what u feel may be he is also waiting for you to make the first move, he might also be ashamed if he was the one who started the argument and what he said.
2006-09-27 22:53:26 · answer #11 · answered by halicate 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋