for instance i do not feel good enough in my job. i do not think other men find me attractive, i find it difficult to make friends and i always think people is gossiping about me
2006-09-27 22:39:24 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
YOU are your own worst enemy darling!!! YOU are projecting this attitude to everyone you meet. YOU are keeping yourself down. Stop it!! Build your self-esteem. Do things that make you feel good about yourself. You ARE good enough!! When you realize this, and ACT like it,...You'll be amazed at how your life will change! Start today ACTING like the person you want to be. Soon, you won't be acting anymore. It's all about your attitude!! Good luck!
2006-09-27 22:51:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dont worry, Music babe feels the same way. its mostly a sign of low self-esteem or u see other people succeeding and it brings u down because u feel u arent as good..but all i can say is hold ur head up and good things will come. guys love women with high self esteem..and u say u dont feel good enough in ur job. theres an obvious reason ur still working there..because YOU ARE GOOD better than the music babe.
You can't expect other people to accept you until you accept YOURSELF, just as you are. Yes, you may feel DIFFERENT, but everyone ELSE is different, too. You also need to decide to stop entertaining negative thinking by replace those types of thoughts with positive ones--even if you don't believe those thoughts at first. Silently to yourself, keep affirming that you are very special (you are), and other people haven't yet REALIZED it about you, yet. That's what the other guy said.
and some one called Laural wishes you good luck by telling u this.YOU are your own worst enemy darling!!! YOU are projecting this attitude to everyone you meet. YOU are keeping yourself down. Stop it!! Build your self-esteem. Do things that make you feel good about yourself. You ARE good enough!! When you realize this, and ACT like it,...You'll be amazed at how your life will change! Start today ACTING like the person you want to be. Soon, you won't be acting anymore. It's all about your attitude!! Good luck!
hes right as hell.
2006-09-27 22:50:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't expect other people to accept you until you accept YOURSELF, just as you are. Yes, you may feel DIFFERENT, but everyone ELSE is different, too. You also need to decide to stop entertaining negative thinking by replacing those types of thoughts with positive ones--even if you don't believe those thoughts at first. Silently to yourself, keep affirming that you ARE very special (you are), and other people haven't yet REALIZED it about you, yet. That's all. GOOD LUCK!
2006-09-27 22:47:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont worry, i feel the same way. its mostly a sign of low self-esteem or u see other people succeeding and it brings u down because u feel u arent as good..but all i can say is hold ur head up and good things will come. guys love women with high self esteem..and u say u dont feel good enough in ur job. theres an obvious reason ur still working there..because YOU ARE GOOD
2006-09-27 22:43:41 · answer #4 · answered by ANGIE T. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not trying to be mean at all- it sounds like you would benefit a lot from going to see a therapist or a psychiatrist to help you get over this. It's normal to have some self-doubts, but it sounds like you have a bit of over-whelming paranoia.
2006-09-27 22:41:58 · answer #5 · answered by Alli 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you have to be confident and if not the feeling will let you down. to me everyone has him/her own beauty maybe you did not realised it. if someone gossiping about you it just normal situation and try to think positively it might help you.good luck!
2006-09-27 23:01:29 · answer #6 · answered by nicky 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
people are gonna gossip!
get some self esteem,you'll find someone
2006-09-27 22:44:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would sit down with someone who is trained to deal with these matters,i do not know you but i know you are not useless and you are not ugly.
2006-09-27 22:43:58 · answer #8 · answered by dj 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to feel very proud of yourself and attractive. why do you think about p'ple's opinion?
2006-09-27 22:43:54 · answer #9 · answered by halicate 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
useless people don't think about these things? are they useless? what people think about you?what they need to do?
what they need to wear?
if you think about these thing then you aren't useless.
2006-09-27 23:22:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋