I love to masturbate a lot. However, I'm in a relationship with a good guy now. The problem is that while masturbating, I fantasize me having sex with another female and not him (well, have I mentioned that I'm a bisexual??)
Once he caught me playing with myself and to be honest, I'm not thinking about him while doing that....
I love him and he loves me. He's known that I'm a bisex and he still accepts me the way I am.... Tell me, then, have I done something bad here? Have I betrayed his love and trust...?
2006-09-27 22:39:15 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
no u have not done anything wrong.ur fantasies have nuthing to do with ur relationship. unless they are about a particular person u have not broken his trust. i am not bysex at least i dont think i am but when i masterbate i do the exact same as u and i only get turned on by lesbian porn mainly!!! thank god u asked this question cuz i used to think i was just wierd but now i know other ppl are like that too. so thanks
2006-09-27 22:47:54 · answer #1 · answered by Belosnezhka (aka Gex) 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You only betray his love and trust if you go and have sex with anyone else without telling him or his consent. I as a man would lay down and die a happy man to find out that my woman wanted to have sex with another woman.
2006-09-27 22:42:05 · answer #2 · answered by nevyn55025 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The be conscious wrongs is the contrary of the amazing element to do. maximum culturles share comparable wrongs & Rights no homicide, no lies, no stealing, know others, be straightforward and committed, until society believes in something diverse, there are wrongs and rights. each guy or woman has the abiliity to make their very own checklist of rights and wrongs- which does not lead them to the two appropriate or incorrect.
2016-12-15 15:58:53 · answer #3 · answered by lotta 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u feel guilty about it,then you have done something bad.he probobly feels inadequate,like he cant fulfill your needs.and,although i dont understand the way gay people think,i think u need to think about whether or not u can be satisfied by a man.your conscience will tell u whether or not u are betraying him or not,only u can answer that question.(p.s.) if u are by,then u are gay.there are alot of oversexed people who couldnt imagine being with someone of the same sex.so what is more important to u,love or sex?
2006-09-27 23:02:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Relax !! You are just one of probably 95% of the people in the World who love to play with themselves! Enjoy it whenever you want to!
How you resolve your Bi SEXUALITY without upsetting your man ,well that's another story!! Enjoy life, it's slowly but surely passing by!!!
2006-09-27 22:47:39 · answer #5 · answered by bear4u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think after all he knows about u so far, he is just passing his time with u or u can say that he is just getting a sex out of u, which will be for sure not go long term. do wht ever suits u by the recent situation.
2006-09-27 22:44:07 · answer #6 · answered by Human 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Only you know the answer to that question. Do you want another? Or is it just a sexual fantasy? Don't lie to yourself. The truth will give you the answer.
2006-09-27 22:43:38 · answer #7 · answered by bionicworm1 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no you haven't betrayed his love. masturbating is normal- even doing it a lot is normal. to find out how normal this is go to...
www.theclitoris.com
2006-09-27 22:41:25 · answer #8 · answered by tiggerkitty3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
fantasies are just that--fantasies. they aren't reality. i don't think it's bad to think about other people when masturbating, as long as you don't go out and act out those thoughts.
i suggest telling him about your fantasies and ask him to tell you his--you may be surprised, and it may bring you closer together.
2006-09-27 22:44:24 · answer #9 · answered by woodpecker 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with that. You're not cheating on your bf you're just thinking. You are fine and shouldn't feel bad for anything.
2006-09-27 22:42:14 · answer #10 · answered by Nicky 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋