I sexually involved a lady younger 7 yrs in 1999.Ist Initative was from her side. In 2003 I marraed to her. She is govt. job and earn more than me. We have No Chilren. After Merrage I cam to know that she is divorcy and have a male child and that she is 7 yrs elder than me. Now we fight almost daily and she says to out from my home (acomoation is provided to her by her employer) and my neighbours states that in my absense a engineer use to come and remains in home for 2 to 3 hrs. and she use to go out in his car. When I asked about her She accepted that she went out to Doctor with her. and she aslo states that she has many outside work so she can discontinue to go outside with him or any other person. Is she cheating to me I am totally abset. I dont want to leave her as I love her and also because I do not want to search another girl to marry.What should I do? She only pay rent of the home and all other expenses beared by me.
2006-09-27 22:34:37 · 23 answers · asked by Question 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You are in sad situation, and have very low esteem. Its good to have no wife than a cheating wife. But before that make sure that she is really cheating you.
Good luck.
2006-09-27 22:41:14 · answer #1 · answered by Guru 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hun u need to get some ballz and be the man of the house she's walking all over u like a door mat.. and ur letting her.. .. at this point id take a good guess she may be cheating on u because she would think your to dumb to realize or to insecure to do anything about it..
2006-09-27 23:25:33 · answer #2 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The bible tells us that the only valid reason for divorce is adultery, so if she admits it you are free, pray about it and if she has disrespected you in this manner, move on if she isn't will in to work on it. She sounds like a liar and has no truth in her . I would never trust her...but I sure would not be looking to get married for a long long while.
2006-09-27 22:54:13 · answer #3 · answered by Godb4me 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your marriage did not start off right, and the foundation of your marriage is on cheats and lies. She was not frank to you at the very beginning and you had not put in effort to find out more about her before being involved with her. It takes two hands to clap, unless your wife is willing to rebuild the marriage and be totally honest with you, it is not easy for you to save this marriage. I am glad that you mention that you love her, and you need to ask yourself if your love for her is strong to accept all her lies and her behaviours.
2006-09-27 22:51:02 · answer #4 · answered by riffee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it is your 'wife', you shouldn't divorce. Wifes are not meant for divorce my dear, but for maintaining as your better half. Change the scenario of your totally upset mindset. Everything will be fine. You shouldn't giver your ear to any rumours or doubt.
2006-09-27 23:15:25 · answer #5 · answered by mkm 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've lost ur dignity, have no pride or shame i think u r depressed.
The remedy here is to have someone kick u real hard in the rear
2006-09-27 22:47:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do that immediately. Not many people of your boat would be as lucky as you to have marriage and enjoy a differnt taste.
Get married to a young one and be happy.
Good luck.
2006-09-27 22:59:13 · answer #7 · answered by Mechie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it looks like a duck and walks like a duck it probably is a duck
and remember like a dog that bites it will bite again
2006-09-27 22:46:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marry a girl and then give love
NOT love a girl and then marry.
You belongs to the 2nd catogory.
so manage yourself with LOVE.
2006-09-27 22:46:35 · answer #9 · answered by lovekissdale 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
by 7 years, you got many from her, now give chance to others!
quite yourseld as you loos your strength, LOL.
she needs strong something and new one.
2006-09-28 08:27:49 · answer #10 · answered by asru 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋