i love my parents too they trust me alot & they even have this feel that they will marry me with the guy of their choice
i know there is time with regard to over marriage atleast 2years but i m having the feelings of loosing him which makes me to get worried
I know Zubair will give me all the happiness
right now his family is no doubt fanancially good as my parents are but i belive him that he will prove best
but i m worried if my parents will not agree then what will i do
please suggest me
2006-09-27 22:28:31 · 13 answers · asked by jasmine 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Dekho jasmine..what you need to do is ..first of all be sure that whatever zubair is studying..its something promising for his future..rather you two people's future...that it will help him improve the financial side of his people hence removing a lil bit of gap..what u need to do is at times talk to ur parents abt what sorta person will they look for and try instigate the idea that nature and personality comes first.. there are many a relationships based on sound financials but the girls go through a lot of misery for it....secondly you should be studyin and aspiring to be a working wife as well so dat you can show that you will contribute to the household of urs and zubair...and inspire zubair to reach new heights...alll along side this...what you need to do is..have faith in your relation and be confident!!!!...GOD BLESS YOU!!!!
2006-09-27 23:22:20 · answer #1 · answered by angelusizhere 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Priya, i visit merely recommend in this severe situaltion that attempt to convience your father and mom. to diminish short i visit merely say by your one determination such an incredible style of lives would get replaced in a unmarried way or the different, merely take the alternative in which few human beings should be the sufferer. Surly your father and mom should be the most effected by your determination. although you're autonomous and could be earning reliable greenbacks yet you comprehend the way a lot your father and mom would have executed so that you could make you so effective and in the present day you're of your own. you'll get each and every project out from this global with funds although the benefits and astounding desires of your father and mom is merely no longer there once you receives married without there consent. At your inlaws position also sometime or the different you'll visit and there'll be someone to communicate about or criticize . i visit merely say in case you truly love him enable him to initiate his own existence and one project better i'd opt to inform you is that love is continually sacrifice .
2016-12-06 07:18:38 · answer #2 · answered by Erika 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you need to let your parents know thats its this guy who makes you happy, if they cant realise that then they may not have your very best interest at heart. They cannot make you marry someone your not in love with, it doesnt happen anymore, you have your own free will to marry whoever you want, and your parents just need to come to terms with it and deal with it in your own tie money cant bring happiness and if your parents truly love you they wont deny you for marrying someone they do not approve of.
2006-09-27 22:33:20 · answer #3 · answered by Emiliana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aim to marry ONLY when parents at both end are ready for the same. Till then remain associated, know each other more and pass the test of time.
2006-09-27 22:36:31 · answer #4 · answered by Believeinu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some or other day you have to keep this in front of your parents if you really wanna spend your life with him. Its difficult but the only solution. Explain to them your love and faith for him . Tell them he is your everything .
Finally I would like to conclude with that your Parents will always take a decision in your benefit. THEY HAVE GIVEN YOU birth AND WILL ALWAYS BE THERE for you ,.SO dont betray them..
ALL THE BEST.
2006-09-27 22:33:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trouble for you. Just avoid it. Zubair may not give you support when needed. Stick to your familiy and they will be there for you always. Zubairs come and go. I'm sorry if I sound harsh.
2006-09-27 22:32:47 · answer #6 · answered by nice guy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have the courage to do what you think will result good for you in the future, fully making your family also to approve the same.
2006-09-27 22:32:43 · answer #7 · answered by mkm 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you talked with your parents? talk to them . may be you are worrying for nothing. and you are writing that their family are no doubt financially as good as your parents. then what are you worrying about?
2006-09-27 22:35:42 · answer #8 · answered by journey2paradise 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who cares what your parents think. Grow up. Live a little. If they love you they will support you. If they don't support you, move on and forget them!
2006-09-27 22:39:07 · answer #9 · answered by heatherlynnmorrow 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stupid question again.
Select one out of 2. your family or love.
2006-09-27 22:33:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋