I mean think about it! WE AreThe ONES in control! Men wouldn't cheat on us if we let it be known that not only will we NOT PUT UP WITH being cheated on, BUT we will not stoop so low as to be the "other woman". We need to step up as a whole and have some respect for ourselves, no man is worth losing your self respect over! And if none of us are letting men cheat WITH us or ON us, then we will once again regain control of the situation! BECAUSE right now there are tooo many of us out to get each other.....instead of standing strong with each other. And we can't blame this on the men, because WE are the one's that set the boundries and WE are the ones that are screwing ourselves over. men will only go as far as you let them.... if you let them walk all over you, then they will! SO STOP LETTING THEM! Do you agree? How do you think we can change this together?
2006-09-27 22:06:02 · 22 answers · asked by ? 3 in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
I agree, however, when we glamorize the ditsy behavior as something cute and when we make helpless women seem like the in thing to be. Women should empower each other,have self respect and these behavior would not happen. However, i don't see this happening anytime soon, since many of the young women of today are seeing images of young women who act as though they don't have a brain cell in their skull, it seems the dumber you act the better they like it. Very sad what we have given to our children. A strong woman is seen as a treat in today's society, always has been. And many women are very eager to have half of a man, share a man. And destroy another women's relationship, if women would not consent and agree with this there would be no one for the man to cheat with. We as women should have more respect for other women and ourselves and the world would be a better place. You don't see men tearing each other down. I have raised four young men, my son's and i will tell you they don't find the dumb attitude cute, they all prefer a women with a sense of who she is, has goals and aspirations for her life. Cant wait to see the responses you will receive on this.
2006-09-29 09:39:15 · answer #1 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's fine . But most of the problem lies within choosing the wrong partner in the first place.
So many women have such low self esteems that they settle for men, that they know deep down, can't be entirely trusted. If more people raised their standards when picking a mate, maybe there would be less cheating going on.
And that applies to both men and women.
2006-09-27 22:22:14 · answer #2 · answered by atomictulip 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I agree with you but I don't just blame the men it is women too.Some men are trifling but so are the women.Some women like being the other woman.Some think that it is funny like they are taking away a womens man.We really she's not taking away a man.If he goes astray then he was never yours to begin with.I think some just don't care and don't mind sharing.Just remember if they do it with you they'll do it to you.No I don't think that this can ever change as long as there are chicken heads out there that don't give a darn.
2006-09-27 22:15:31 · answer #3 · answered by redanimalmuppet 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
People in general will walk on you if you let them personaly it pisses me off that woman let guys treat them like crap and get away with it i treat woman with respect and would not cheat etc howether i definantly dont accept and bad behaviour from woman i have my own life and im fine single but id be fine withsomeone etc .
Well sorry to disapoint you but im control of my myself and no woman could control me if she made a stuipd excuse such as ill leave you if you dont do what i say then ill say seyou then etc . Howether this does not mean im a nobhead to woman im far from its just im in control .
Yeh stop dating the abusive jerks and softie wussy guys a date the real men if you can find one .
Good luck with your scheme .
2006-09-27 22:23:15 · answer #4 · answered by badass-mofu 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
This is just a stab in the dark, but something tells me you were cheated on. Now, of course, you want to save girls from the "mean monsters known as men", right? Listen, just bust out the chocolates and a sob-movie and you'll get over it. lol lol
2006-09-28 01:25:23 · answer #5 · answered by nice_boobs 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I used to think about this about women too... then I realized they were leaving me because I sounded just like you. So I grew up and realized that you should never love someone else more than yourself. You'll prevent MANY heartbreaks this way. Also, try not to generalize and assume all men are the same...
2006-09-28 14:50:57 · answer #6 · answered by Dave 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Many, many wars were started over and by men. Real People, inc women and children died.
Men have, in history (& today still do), used their "charms" in influencing women & men of social/political power.And as if that wasn't enough, you carved a "success" in history by recognizing and signing a Constitution disallowing women from voting. [& blacks too for that matter].
But, oh--you sought even more social DOMINANCE and embraced the Suppress the Women's Rights movement (with the avid help from a strong lobby of HE-MEN POOFTERS.)
And Hey!!! You boys had ALL the marriage and divorce court advantages and the whole bloody juicy action in the affirmative action stakes
--good for you!!!!
RAH!RAH!RAH!
Bottom Line: you boys haven't had very much historic social success; you have erected the bar.
It is laughable you haven't realised by now that the more you focus 'on' controlling a woman, the more the woman is gonna wriggle free.
And oh . . . BTW, the "other woman" is being fuckedup by a preying man too, sugar!!!
Hey Sister!!!Move over a little bit so we can both fit on the soap-box!!! lol
2006-09-27 23:11:39 · answer #7 · answered by cheek peas 2 · 1⤊ 3⤋
Men AND women need to be held accountable for their actions. People are going to cheat as long as they are in relationships. (its not cheating unless at least one of you is in a relationship...right?) There is never a "reason" to cheat...men AND women cheat because they have the opportunity and a willing partner to do it with...
2006-09-28 09:26:45 · answer #8 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should start by setting a good example for men, as 54% of marital affairs are carried out by married women.
2006-09-27 22:09:52 · answer #9 · answered by W0LF 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sorry - can you please not lump me into your band of 'Ladies'?
In my work and in my life, I have dealt with alot of men. The industry I work in is approximately 90% male. Having said that I have only ever known a small handful of bad men... most men I know are stunningly normal, kind, understanding and interesting.
Please stop man-bashing - it's really not necessary.
2006-09-27 23:49:11 · answer #10 · answered by quay_grl 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋