My friend's wife lied to him about when she was taking birth control. He has evidence that she did not pick it up from the pharmacy for the last two months. Is this a crime? How does this affect child custody and divorce proceedings (he has other children with her)?
2006-09-27 21:57:56 · 13 answers · asked by jordan1402005 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
1) Girls lie about being on birth control ALL the time...I don't think it's considered a crime.
2) he has no idea whether she went to a different pharmacy or not.
3) it won't matter much in the divorce and child custody proceedings. It might give him some small grounds to bargain with, but it's not a big enough thing to give him any real advantage. If he wants custody of those kids he's going to have to find something better.
2006-09-27 22:06:04 · answer #1 · answered by Alli 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It is not a crime in the legal meaning of the word and does not form grounds for divorce. It is, however the most disgusting breach of trust in what should be the most trusting of all forms of relationship. It is grossly unfair for a woman to put her desire for a child above the need to maintain her marriage. Forcing another child on her spouse in this underhand way and against his will is a sure way to destroy the relationship that is required for her children to grow up in love and safety.
2006-09-28 05:32:05 · answer #2 · answered by U.K.Export 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont know if its a crime or not...... but as far as custody ummmm i think it would be hard for him to say that he didnt want the child to be concieved and he's putting charges against her for that.. yet he wants custody of that child???? he's already proving he didnt want it..and as far as it being born under false pretences.. i doubt a judge would do much about it.. because he should take precautions himself if he's that adament about not having a child.. u should never leave it up to someone else to protect your interests and the only 100% guarantee that u wont have a child is by not having sex at all.. so i really dont see how this will affect it to much.. but then again im not a lawyer..
2006-09-28 06:29:37 · answer #3 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course it's not a crime! It won't effect custody in the least! If your male or female, you should never count on any one to use birth control but your self! No excuses! If your going to be dumb, you pay the price!
2006-09-28 05:23:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It should be a crime. I've got 5 kids. 2 was good enough for me. We had a boy & then a girl. It's so bloody expensive as well. My wife said she was using contraception each time.
2006-09-28 05:05:07 · answer #5 · answered by stevoledevo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not alot he can do about that except use his own birth control since she is obviously attempting to get pregnant so as to keep him around. Its not a crime.
2006-09-28 05:01:41 · answer #6 · answered by nevyn55025 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's not a crime, according to the law, BUT IT'S F$CKED UP NOT TO TELL HIM. THAT'S BULLSH!T. AND THEY HAVE THE F#CKIN NERVE TO YELL THAT MEN LIE. Hypocritical bullsh!t.
2006-09-28 10:17:21 · answer #7 · answered by L Jeezy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is no law against it but she is breaking a moral crime and she is also trying to trap him...
2006-09-28 05:29:15 · answer #8 · answered by Ladeebug71 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on where in the World you are in the USA its depends on the state you live in....IN UK Women have all rights to the kids
2006-09-28 05:00:34 · answer #9 · answered by Stella 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes she should be honest. if she gets pregnant and he doesn't want any more then it will cause problems in there relationship.
2006-09-28 05:25:17 · answer #10 · answered by kathy froggylady40 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋