I sat on the train the other day listening to 3 women discussing their co-workers. They were so disparaging and catty, it made me sick.
Then this morning, at the supermarket, there was a really pretty women dressed nicely, and all the other women gave her horrible looks and stared at her up and down.
Now, men don't do these things. How many men do you know get together and gossip and pick apart other men?
Or look them up and down in public like they're judjing them?
It makes me embarassed to be a woman sometimes, and ythis behaviour starts early, in childhood.
So why do we do it? Why are we "bitches" to oneanother?
2006-09-27 21:40:06 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
how true!!
its obviously genetic. i also think its a type of survival instinct- maybe its our way of shooing off the mating competition!
2006-09-27 21:42:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I work mostly with men so when I do get a chance to work with a woman, sometimes things like this is just glaringly plain for all to see. I think it's more then just jealousy or competition, because men have that too. I think its because we are more emotionally free where females (most) wear their emotions on their sleeves and if you are the same gender you tend to be more relaxed about how you treat the other person. Something like siblings would tell the other off with no problem, but deep down they love each other. Females just do the first part to each other (^.^). That's the shame.
2006-09-28 05:17:31 · answer #2 · answered by sakura4eternity 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's just alot of jealous haters in this world, and yea it is really sad. Especially when you really are just a nice person and other women automatically don't like you because they think you look better than them. I've had to deal with this my whole life, and it still gets to me sometimes. I think women as a whole sell themselves short most of the time, there is so much jealousy and competion.... it seems like an endless cycle...and there's no reason for it to be like that.
2006-09-28 04:53:01 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I KNOW! it's terrible! and I've seen "friends" do this to each other. One minute they're tearing them to shreds and the next their best friends. It sickens me. It's easy to get caught up in it too, the older I get the better I get at avoiding these "***** fests". Women have insecurities that men don't have towards one another.
2006-09-28 04:55:57 · answer #4 · answered by Celeste 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sue, that was a really intelligent response. You must be proud.
I agree that it's a competition thing that's ingrained in our make-up. And not the kind on our faces LOL
2006-09-28 04:53:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
woman are bitches. thats why i don't have any female friends. i make a friend and within two months, she's gone crazy and i have to find a way to get the hell away from her.
but proving your point here we are calling woman bitches, so i guess we're bitches too.
2006-09-28 04:44:38 · answer #6 · answered by whosaidthat? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
gossip: a woman's thing
checking out babes:a man's thing
i think i'm the only guy here
2006-09-28 04:43:34 · answer #7 · answered by ##$SoulStryker$## 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
women who are doing such things are the most insecure person... they are too envious about the other woman that's why they look at her weaknesses and talk about it!!!
2006-09-28 05:34:53 · answer #8 · answered by ♥Sapphire 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Three words.
Jealousy, competition, insecurity.
2006-09-28 06:28:43 · answer #9 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah you said why are "we" bitches to one another..........well im not like that so to answer your question i dont know why THOSE females do that to each other
2006-09-28 05:27:02 · answer #10 · answered by chevy*gurl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋