i lived with him for 2 1/2 yrs he broke it off 2 months ago, he basically raised my son, now hes baggin me to come back to him what should i do
2006-09-27 21:13:23 · 19 answers · asked by lv23smurf 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Maybe he broke it off with the illusion as many of the men think , they can found something better and couldn't , in this case he can't really love you because when you really love someone that person satisfies you entirely , if you really love him you can receive him back in your life but be prepared to get hurt again , but also he could left you because he wasn't feeling worthy enough for you and now the pain of loosing you is hurting him too much ,whatever was the cause you have to have a very sincere discussion with him and then listen to your heart if you want him back or not.
2006-09-27 21:29:31 · answer #1 · answered by Paul Alexandru Cazacliu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
before you consider taking him back think about this:if he did this before, he will do it again, it's in their nature...men...
I'm not in the position to tell you without a doubt what you should do but think this very hard... consider your happiness but if you don't love your boyfriend anymore don't go back to him cause of your little boy.
children can be raised properly only by the mother(this is my situation... and i grew up just fine!)...
think your next move very carefully...
god bless you and your boy!
2006-09-28 04:21:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what you want to do. If you don't want to get back with him then don't it's your choice. If you do on the other hand then go for it but if he dumps you again he's not worth taking back a 3rd time if he decides to come crawling back.
2006-09-28 04:16:28 · answer #3 · answered by Rachie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
follow your heart, weight out the good and bad and if the good out weighs the bad take him back if not move on! just make sure you are happy with your decision! good luck
2006-09-28 04:17:58 · answer #4 · answered by TNW22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to decide if you trust him enough to go back. Will he do that again is what you need to think about !
2006-09-28 04:15:40 · answer #5 · answered by דְבוֹרָה Devorah 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should sit down and talk to him. do you still love him? what was the reason you split up? if it was something silly and you still love him i think you should atleast talk to him but as you guess i don't know why you split up so its hard to comment
2006-09-28 04:16:31 · answer #6 · answered by raeanne2710 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he raised your son? or the both of yours ? take him back and suck him every night dry
2006-09-28 04:17:05 · answer #7 · answered by Foss 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Is he desperate? homeless? jobless? broke? if yes to all I say no, cause he will just use you
2006-09-28 04:15:14 · answer #8 · answered by KittyMom 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
do you still love him if you do then go back with him if not don't
2006-09-28 04:17:08 · answer #9 · answered by meandragon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on!
2006-09-28 04:16:07 · answer #10 · answered by ken31pop 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋