is a jobless man who thinks of responsibility can be called a parasite?

Question

Presently I dont have a job and still waiting for my permit to work. While in this kind of situation, I cant help myself thinking how worthless husband i am to my wife and my kids who really needs my support. My wife is down economically and i'm afraid she might not understand how i feel about the responsibilities she's in to right now. What do you think is the best for me to do just to let her know I'm not a bum, and always very much worried about my stand? Please ... I need everyones help to make it clear to her. Will appreciate all of you who's willing to share their parts with my situation although i'm only new here. Thanks

Answer 1

You are not a parasite..may be ur ego is being hurt by urself..try to be reasonable..nd dont think of morals too much..what i mean to say is positivism is the best way of living..its the bad patch of time which is disturbing u. soon u will get work permit..basically there is no difference in male and female..nd there are lot of housewives too.. tht dont make them parasites..when in a couple, we are at different responsibilities.If at prsent U are at home, i will advise u to take care of the responsibilities of ur home in a creative and well-judged manner. be objectivist and u will make ur life beautifull. no matter what work u do, the thing which counts is how u are performing it. and dont think tht u r workless../and U dont need to make this point clear to ur wife.. if she is reasonable, she will understand this...U only need to remain alert, enthusiastic and reasonable towards urself...and try to find out ways to help urself and ur family in a creative way...please try not to create an environment of emotional problems to urself./

Answer 2

You don't say if she's supporting the family at the moment, but I'm assuming that she is.
Take over her household chores. Care for the kids, clean the house, make sure she's taken care of and she doesn't have to come home and clean up after the kids or cook dinner. Play the 'house husband' until you get back on your feet. This will take a lot of pressure off of her. It will also show that you understand her situation and are willing to help in any way that you can.
You can't do anything until you get the permit, and she should understand this, so do whatever you can to lessen her stress at home. And when you start working again and money allows it, make it up to her. A night out with a relaxing dinner for two sounds good to me.
Good Luck and I hope everything works out for you.

Answer 3

Don't worry too much. Each one of us have bad periods like being jobless or "broke". It could be a blessing in disguise if you look at it positively, like learning to come to term with our failures and rectify them. When the going
gets tough, as the saying goes, the tough gets going.

Talk to your wife nicely and I'm sure she would understand if you demonstrated sincerity and responsibility. Good Luck, my friend.

Answer 4

i think u re right to thinl this way. i think that a real man would take any job to support his wife and kids. u don't have permission to work? so how about cleaning smth or helping ta the kitchen one time job for cash? im sure if u go to any restaurant and ask for that kind of job they will be happy to give it to u. thus u won't think of yourself as useless parasite. and your wife doesn't need your words. she needs your actions. sos top sitting on your butt, start doing smth

Answer 5

Lito castro? your jobless AND idolize a communist? no wonder no one will hire you

Answer 6

please do not view yourself that way. we all have our ups and downs.

yes, i think you should have a talk with your wife. i am sure she has her insecurities as well.