am trying to heal from our relationship bse it cant work. even if i change my mobile line he knows where i leave. does he love me, likes me or totally confused? PLEASE NO INSULTS. THANKS IN ADVANCE.
2006-09-27 20:54:45 · 11 answers · asked by kiss me. 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Healing after a breakup can be devastating as it is, just getting out of a relationship, some people tend to act a little obsessive, and if you truly want to get over this guy, you should be as specific as possible to him. You need closure in order to continue into a healthy possible future relationship...Good Luck to you. Be Safe.
2006-09-27 21:41:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's quite possible that he's bored and keeps coming around. I've had guys do that when the relationship ended. They wouldn't have dates, or they didn't feel like going out with the 'boys', and they'd end up on my door step just because they were bored with nothing to do. I guess they thought that I'd amuse them for the night, I don't know.
The next time he makes an appearance, just tell him to go away and not come back. Tell him you're beginning to think he's stalking you and remind him that it's against the law.
Or when you answer the door and it's him tell him to go away and slam the door in his face. (I did this once and the guy never came back).
If you have caller ID on the phone, don't answer it if it's him. If you don't have it, let the voice mail pick it up then don't return the call. On the home phone, if you don't have caller ID use the answering machine to screen the calls and don't return his calls.
2006-09-28 04:11:13 · answer #2 · answered by Lucianna 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have made a decision to move on with your life. He is effectively keeping you from following up on your decision because it gives him a feeling of control over you. Change your phone numbers / email addresses, get a restraining order, document any cases of stalking in case you need to get the police involved.
2006-09-28 04:02:38 · answer #3 · answered by Liz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He can't decide what he wants either. It sounds to me like he is hoping he can have his cake and eat it. I would avoid him at all costs and just be honest with him if he comes to your house again. Just tell him he is messing with your head because he is saying one thing and acting in a totally different way. Be strong know your own mind and don't stray off that path and hopefully you should be fine.
2006-09-28 04:03:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi, i really think this bloke is taking the mickey , you need to keep as much space between you as possible, dont answer your door or your phone to him tell him you want to live your own life and if he keeps hassling you get in touch with the police they are very good at stopping stalkers these days.
2006-09-28 08:06:22 · answer #5 · answered by P J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like he is using your emotions to keep coming round until he is ready to move or has found something else. try and be straight with him, if not get a mate or relative to give him a friendly word.
2006-09-28 04:41:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi Bammi
dont let him do this to you, He must know that you still love him and that you need more time to get over it, just ask him can he spare a though for you and let you alone so you can move on
2006-09-28 04:00:33 · answer #7 · answered by chass_lee 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am in the same exact situation. I think that maybe he just doesn't want to see you with someone else. Or, maybe, he's just too selfish to let you be happy alone.
2006-09-28 04:01:48 · answer #8 · answered by Rainbow 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is about control. Get a barring order.
2006-09-28 03:58:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hes using your sorry girl. you need to put your foot down and tell him to back off!
2006-09-28 06:09:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋