Been with a girl for almost 2 years. She lost faith in us (about not getting to the next "step") at a point and we broke up! We never stopped loving each other and I'm trying to get her back although she 's with someone else. We had some "moments" in my house lately but she says she can't find the strength to turn her life around and come back. She claims I'm her greatest love and the other guy is just pure logic ( & security ). She feels it's a great risk to try with me because in case we fail....she'll die ! For me, she's the womman of my life! What can I do??
2006-09-27 19:23:50 · 8 answers · asked by GuitBoy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
make her feel secure.... if you really want her. You need to be asking her what he does that makes her feel so secure and accomplish it yourself.
2006-09-27 19:27:50 · answer #1 · answered by Charmed 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She will soon find out that logic and security fall short when you need a fulfilling life, excitement, fun, compatibility, love, warm hugs, etc. If you're the love of her life, and she is of yours...it would be crazy for her to not try
2006-09-28 02:29:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
GROW UP DUDE...........she said it your not a safe bet in her eyes. she wants a man not a boy....to father her kids and provide and protect......you blew it move on
and oh yea it don't matter if you love her cause love don't pay for the house or car or babies or medical bills or the future....your not a whole package your just a mistake she made while looking for a real man......who can provide security for his family she did the right thing leaving you......it would be a huge mistake for her to go backwards now.
2006-09-28 02:38:14 · answer #3 · answered by 4stringthndr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well. if you really like her than be persistent and at the same time have full respect for her. Try and seek from her... what you lack or how you can be and will be better that the other dude. If it's security she after...hey buster better provide that...take up Chi-Gung....or something similar...if everything else tried and tested..there is always"Kung-Fu"
2006-09-28 02:36:47 · answer #4 · answered by Leo.S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People break up for a reason... your should never go back, always move forward.
This girl cannot see something in you that she sees in that other guy. You might have been lacking the security she is searching for
2006-09-28 02:34:13 · answer #5 · answered by pinxta01 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude, if a woman loves a man regardless of the situation (security:financial)..that woman should stand her ground and be with her man..look for someone that will not look on your pocket but will look what's inside your heart and personality
2006-09-28 02:29:45 · answer #6 · answered by harukashin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds as if she's made her choice and it's not you. You need to move on and quit thinking about this person.
2006-09-28 02:26:33 · answer #7 · answered by phoenixheat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is very simple she is a gold diger all she wonts is money if she find an other man with more money shell dich this guy before you can say ***** or whore!
2006-09-28 02:26:55 · answer #8 · answered by fresh men ivan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋