I sure wish I did! I'm just a 23 year old and I have had nothing but bad luck with friends..Especially with female friends..People these days are so inconsiderate and only care about themselves..I wish I had someone in my life who was down to earth, honest and caring as myself...Is there anyone else out there wish they had the same??
2006-09-27 19:16:58 · 18 answers · asked by lrmakeithappen 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Yea, me. I'm 30.
2006-09-27 19:18:53 · answer #1 · answered by ananswerer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure!!!!! Each & every person will wish for a true friendship.But the truth is that very rarely do we get those precious diamonds.In the course of our journey thru this world we meet many, and since each one's destination is different we do have to part.But what i would like to tell u dear is to get along with everyone in ur course of life.Once we find a very good friend we expect many things from them and the relationship will be spoiled.I had many many good friends.But we had to part and the situation is such that we may not even find time to contact each other.Everyone is busy with their own lives.Wherever u go, u need new friends.U cannot simply stick on to 1 person for everything.Friendship is a gift that u give to yourself.But once u get urlife partner, everything may be changed.Again u may find different friends to share and understand the problems in ur married life...CHEER UP.LIFE IS LIKE THAT!!!!
2006-09-27 20:28:18 · answer #2 · answered by butterfly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've experienced the same thing. However there have been a few good friends that I still have but yet its not the same as having one special or even a couple friends that you know for sure would always be true friends. I'm still hoping to find a friend like that one day. Someone to hang out with and that I won't have to worry about her flirting with my husband everytime I walk out of the room. That would be nice to start with. Plus all the other cool qualities count as well. I am married but yet I still haven't found my soul mate. I believe that soul mates dont always have to be lovers but can also appear in our lives as friends. I hope you find yours soon and hopefully mine will find me. ( I really don't get out much lol) :)
2006-09-27 19:44:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
everyone wishd they had a good friend or someone close to tell everything too but trithfully u could go through that many friends in ur life and only a couple of them in the end wen ur old and grey will still b sticking by ur side thats wen u kno that u hav true friends wen its too late cause thats the way the world goes these days but im sure u will get a friend a true one it jus takes time jus watch ur back sometime ok cause some ppl out there dnt care...
2006-09-27 19:22:17 · answer #4 · answered by beauticallz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl I am in the same boat as you . I don't trust anyone especially females, I have had very bad luck with them thats why I keep male friends but its only so much you can tell them. I would LOVE to have a female friend who I can tell anything to and not worry about it getting back out or her trying to steal my man. But unfortunatley I can't find a " TRUE" friend :(
2006-09-27 19:26:55 · answer #5 · answered by ♥ Army Wife ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Used to be that way myself. Hooked up with some people on a forum for a local radio show host, and before I knew It, I was president of the fan club, arranging gigs for the guy, managing his website, and now have more friends then at any time in my life.
The secret is to find people that are like you in taste, opinion, and have a lot of commonality with you. From their its a piece of cake.
Good luck to you!!
2006-09-27 19:28:42 · answer #6 · answered by Frogface53 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i know how you feel,i am the youngest in my family which numbers nine,all my brothers and sisters were in boarding school,as my mother and father divorced when i was very young,so i never grew up with them ,also i was the first non white in my school,so that was really fun,i have never trusted anyone and have never had a best friend ,so yes i can relate,i wish at times for someone to just talk to ,ive been alone for so long it is hard to trust anyone .......hope that makes sense
2006-09-27 19:29:57 · answer #7 · answered by gry w 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Same with me. Even when I had one and it lasted for more than 8 years, it ended at the end. I lost my energy because I have invested a lot of emotions, effort, time and even money in that relationship and yet it failed. I definitely cannot do any better and cannot even repeat it again. So, what's the point? Embrace loneliness!!
2006-09-27 20:42:32 · answer #8 · answered by daliaadel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I sure do ! My problem is I don't trust people anymore, it's really hard to these days. I think we all need & deserve a friend to talk to , encourage,laugh, love, go shopping!!. When my mom died I lost my best friend & its been hard. My sister & I are very close & I do appreciate her alot. I hope you can find someone .
Good Luck
&
God Bless
2006-09-27 19:24:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
All the time, sometimes i wonder if i'll ever meet someone that i can call my bestfriend. 22 and im already worried i wont be able to share my achivments with anyone. I just dont see anyone in this small town that i could really relate to, or who can share my views on life.
2006-09-27 19:39:08 · answer #10 · answered by Seraphiel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes true friendship is a special thing and you can find it in a guy just the same believe you me they can be just as honest as a female but you can also loose them the same way so friendship don't mean as much as it use to when u were little kids.....i stopped lookin
2006-09-27 19:38:52 · answer #11 · answered by mojajazmo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋