I moved all the way across the country to be closer to my boyfriend of a year. He went on Spring Break to Mexico while I stayed back. I really did not feel comfortable with him going for I know what goes on during Spring Break. He did call me every day though and promised me he would not do anything to hurt me while he was away. While he was away I had been asked to model at the Maxim party in Boston and had found a new job. So he came back and I was doing well, but he could not sleep at night. Turns out he had cheated on me on Spring Break, the dumbass left his e-mail account open and the girl had written to him. She did not even know he had a girlfriend. I called him out on cheating and he said he wasn't going to tell me since he did not want to hurt me. What really sucked is he slept with me right when he got home, that really was not cool and I made him get tested. Anyways, he said he could not give me a reason why he did it. Why would someone cheat on someone they love?
2006-09-27 19:09:23 · 7 answers · asked by Katie C 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Guys are assholes, I seriously have the hardest time trusting any guy b/c the ratio to those who cheat and those who don't is a huge difference. I feel your pain and I hope that you don't take him back because he doesn't deserve such an honest person like yourself, but if you do take him back then I hope he can be everything you want in a man.
2006-09-27 19:13:13 · answer #1 · answered by It's Me 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Scratch love... its not... cheat is a selfish act male/female
its a part of the pig syndrome (problem with immediate gratification) maybe that y they call guys pigs..
seriously rethink your relationship with him perhaps maturity is an issue..
i am glad that he got tested..did u please call health department hiv/aids groups ect and ask about false negative and something called the window period, did u kno that college student hiv/aids/std's are reaching epidemic status (its really there now the numbers r not all n)
today it is just plain stupid stupid stupid to have unprotected sex with any one. until both are tested twice even then its a lot of trust to believe that your partner is being "faithful ",
if u love him evaluate .. but always remember 2 luv u more
2006-09-27 19:26:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The easiest, but hardest, thing to say is maybe he didn't love you as much as you thought. I'm sorry to say that.
Or it could be that he didn't plan on getting found out and this other woman pressed hard. Yours wouldn't be the first guy to get stupid on vacation away from home. Girls do it, too.
You've gotta keep getting tested, too.
Sorry.
2006-09-27 19:19:22 · answer #3 · answered by GreenEyedLilo 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The Fack are u talking about i've never gone sping braking...... sorry about that you have to relize that most of us man and i mean like 95% of us mothfakers don't know the meaning of love, and most people women included never plan to be completly faithfull in a relationship... I personally never cheated on nobody, but that's because my relationship never last, but thats beyond the point.. most people just get into relationships for the sex, they confuse love with the fact that they don't want to hurt the other person, with time they realize it was just the sex they were interested in and since they don;t want to hurt the other person they just start doing sh1t behind their back........or they get drunk and fack up, long story short get to know the person betfore u Fack them , instead of trying to know them while u fack'em... sorry about the cursing but i prefer to write the way i think ...so please dont report it as abuse
2006-09-27 19:28:36 · answer #4 · answered by mexika_thug 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
His love for you falls way, way, short!!
If a guy "Really" loved a girl, every time he came across another attractive girl, he would think to himself of how much he loves his own better!
2006-09-27 19:13:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Some guys think with their little head instead of their big head
2006-09-27 19:23:03 · answer #6 · answered by dxle 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well, there are very very very few men in this world that are honest. well, if you really love that guy, forgive him, once, twice but if he cheated on you three times already then that's a different story
2006-09-27 19:18:10 · answer #7 · answered by tikla79 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋