life is not worth living and i have a crap life with nothing going my way!
i try to be a christian but im never good enough and i can't stop swearing whatever i do!!!
my mum is... really big and she can't kep to her diet. i probley eat too much junk food but im not fat.
my friends are giving me total crap and my 'friend' harry (her nickname) is annoying. shes nice i guess but she just hates me and i try sooo hard to be nice to her but i fail what am i doing wrong? my group of friends has split cuz of yak.
my love life is crap and theres this shy guy and his friend told me that he likes me and i said that he has to tell me himself. hes really shy and i don't think he will ever get the nerve to ask me out before big camp which is a week away and i'll have to survive 8 days without seeing him! even then i don't think i'll see him at big camp which will be 15+ days without seeing dylan! my life is total crap and i just can't stop crying what the hell is the matter with me?
2006-09-27 19:08:43 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
my skinn is sooooo dry and its drying out. i feel like a stuck up little ***** cuz i've got so much opportunity in my life and im like staring out at my great view and thinking of how i don't deserve it!!!!
2006-09-27 19:11:13 · update #1
umm.. you seem like "trying so hard" on everything to be perfect. but you don't have to, what do you care? your mom is fat? just let her be, you hate your friend, leave her alone. and about your love,if you know that he like you, then just ask him out when he comes back from the camp. i am so jelous that you have someone who likes you. i wish i had one too.
2006-09-27 19:20:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never ever give up, I have been to the point where your at along time ago I guess it was about 25 years ago and almost did something about it but decided against it, don't know why. Anyway life went on and I'm glad it did. Now I'm not saying life is just beautiful now I still have ups and downs but that is what life is all about. How would you ever know you were having a good day if you didn't have a bad day to compare it to. My grandaughter always says live strong, don't know where she gets her outstanding wisdom but am glad she has it. Things will get better for you if you just give them time, until then stay strong and determined to make it through life you will be glad you did. Best of Luck.
2006-09-28 03:59:18 · answer #2 · answered by teffy2toes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't actually want to see the bright side of life. You rather amuse yourself feeling you're living a crappy life. You don't seem to try anything at all to make you feel better. You immediately foresee the negative side instead of what good things will bring you.
Act by your instincts. For example, if your friends don't give you the same treatment you give them, they're not meant for you to be your friends. But have you tried looking deep into yourself or perhaps assumed that you might be the cause for you to be treated so bad by your own friends? Or you rather have reservations towards your friends? They can easily feel that, hence, the unfavorable treatment.
And, about that shy guy, geez... you want him? Go write him a note. He's simply waiting for a hint or assurance that he won't be disappointed or embarrassed when he makes his own move. But I wonder, you probably assume you'd look cheap if you write him a note.
You see? You're a negative thinker. Do something about it.
2006-09-28 08:29:56 · answer #3 · answered by Mike N. D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my honest advice is that you are confused like hell, no offense and so am i. i am in college and was depressed up until a couple of days ago about my bf, love life, school-the same stuff you go through and you have listed. lisen, you are so young to be in a depressed mood because of some stupid friend of he said-she said crap, and how life is treating you like crap, but guess what? life does not stand still and your eating habits are making everything worse! you need some alone time, and stop putting others before you because that is the reason that you are so miserable, not depressed-notice the word choice! you actually need to focus on yourself, eliminate the people who bring more drama than happiness in your life, chose your friends wiser and to stop worrying so much about guys! if it happens it happens and if it does not it does not-you have to learn to move on and let go of all the drama and yourself making miserable! for crying out loud you will be once 16. or 17, etc. so enjoy it while it lasts because later on you will want to be 16 again! just take one day at a time!
2006-09-28 02:25:57 · answer #4 · answered by icycrissy27blue 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Tz juz ur self esteem. Learn to love first urself and accept reality before others can love you and b4 they can accept you.
I was once like dat. Sometimes I feel life is useless because no one cares for me and no one wants to be my friend. But I have owecome t coz believing in yourself and believing n wat u can do will make things easier for you. F u really care about yourself stop worrying. F dat guy really likes you den he will ask you out. You just have 2 be patient coz in time things will work out.
Do some recreational stuffs. T will help you. F ur really deppressed and u feel dat der's no way dat this things can still be mended then take some anti-depressant. It will help you. But the most powerful way s 2 talk 2 God. He answers our prayers just listen carefully. Read the bible. Tz through his word U'll get enough wisdom to understand urself and to be as strong you want 2 be. Don't be afraid juz do what you know s right.
2006-09-28 03:06:46 · answer #5 · answered by bianxbianx20 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need a really good friend in your life and a support system. I'm not sure why your skin is dry i recommend that you drink water and fluids through out the day. Try using Keri lotion. Its highly recommend by doctors and its good for dry skin. Or you could try using Shea Butter. Here in nyc in harlem its sold 100% pure. Pray and keep asking god to help you and give you strenth. If you seriously are thinking about hurting yourself ...please don't. life is worth living. There is a reason for everything. Please just take it easy maybe you should go speak to a professional tomorrow morning. Go to a medical doctor and he can refer you to someone, he might give you something to help you fell better. You should take what he precribes to you. Please don't hurt yourself hun surround yourself with positive surroundings and people. You are very worth living because you are here for a reason.
2006-09-28 02:15:07 · answer #6 · answered by Thebronx 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I dunno anything about your skin, but as long as you consider yourself a young adult, all you have to do to be a good christian is *notice* the nice things people do for others and take it as a good example...most likely it will relate at some point in your life.
On another note, if god or mother mary could say anything, it would be "You can't let me down"....they know all and even if bad occurs, they would turn it into a bad-for-good case.
I'm no good with relationships, so as for far as your friend and this shy guy goes, all I know is, you got a friend right here ;)
2006-09-29 21:12:38 · answer #7 · answered by Jay D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that your problem is that you think you are suffering so much that you don't try to think positively. Cheer up, don't think about how suffering you are, think about things u need to do to change ur situation.
Think brightly and just smile! Your life is too valuable to end. You might have a bright future waiting and the people who hurt you aren't valuable enough to die for. If u find this hard, then think about ur dreams and how happy u'll be when u have it.
Good luck! ^^(v)
2006-09-28 02:36:10 · answer #8 · answered by bichan 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
have a good self-image, read lot of personality development books, listen to good motivational tapes, dont have very high expectations from others, take the initiative instead of expecting others to act first, remember others opinions is not your life or your experience. You dont have to be perfect and that is not needed too. May be you are trying to be too good and always seek approval from others, just keep it low. Most importantly you crave for love so just express your love and you will find others coming close to you.....
2006-09-28 05:38:37 · answer #9 · answered by vlikeme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just know that everything you go through in life has a purpose and you always have the power to turn things around and be happy. Just know that with time any hurt, depression, heartache will pass and you get over. Focus on something that makes you happy. Talk about your problems and set them free. You have the power.
2006-09-28 02:24:01 · answer #10 · answered by eric g 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋