Well i split up for my girlfrend about 2 month now and am feelin relly low and i feel as if i dont want to go on but she is givin me alot of abuse and i want to move on but i cant somthing is stopin me i dont know what and if i dont think of her durin the day i dream of her at night i cant get her out my head!!!!!
Plz HELP
2006-09-27 18:55:12 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Well If ma so called frends niver chose her over me i would even ma best mate chose her over me
2006-09-27 19:02:44 · update #1
aw huni! poor u im no its hard 2 get over sum1 u realli liked and im sure it dnt help with her still giving u abuse!!!and no offence but ur friends went worth it any way if they choose her over u!i no that its hard not to think of something thats playing on your mind especially at night!!!is their anything you Can do to take ur mind off her go out with old friends that dnt no ur ex? or spend time with family? or realli throw urself into schoolwork or work(not sure wat age u r) try to get realli tired at nights b4 going 2 bed this should make it easier not too focus on thinking bout her and ull sleep better!maybe go 4 a walk at night? try to break all contact with ur ex i no its hard but it will make things easier 4 u! wen u think of her try to have something else to do like go on the computer or go 4 a drive (im learning so this helps me) something u realli have 2 think about and concentrate on so u cant think of anything else i.e. her! i hope this helps sorri if i dnt i realli want 2 cause i feel so sorri 4 u i no wat its like!! its is totally normal by the way so dnt worri bout that! you totally should go on cause u are so much better than her dnt let it get to u huni!! if u need 2 chat send me an email!!! good luck hope u feel better!! eat chocolate it makes happy feel good hormones which help!!(sounds stupid but realli does help)xo
just read ur other questions is this the same girl that was making u realli down a few months you!!please tell me u have stopped drinking and cutting urself?shes realli not worth it huni u can do so much better than her!!!!it will annoy her more if shes see that u rnt bothered bout her!!even if u r u can not show her!ull meet a realli nice girl who deserves u!!!!!!!
2006-09-28 22:47:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, he wasn't much of a friend to you if he took her side. Go out and enjoy life. Almost everyone has been through this and all you can do is just keep your head up and go out and have fun. Do something that you have never done before, but have been wanting to do. I was engaged and living with a guy and he cheated on me, and for about 4 months afterwards I was totally depressed and one day I was going to the beach with a friend of mine and I realized how much freedom I had to do what I wanted. If she is abusive to you don't even bother talking to her. She is not worth your time!
2006-09-28 02:10:40 · answer #2 · answered by Ryan's mom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you still feel attracted to this girl, if she gives you a lot of abuse. It will get better in time, i know people say that all the time, its true. i have just split up with my partner after 13 yrs, yeah its not easy at first, but theres more to life than feeling **** all the time, If she thinks your still interested she will torment you even more, Get all your mates and just go out to the pub and have a good laugh, you dont have to go out and look for another lass, just enjoy yourself. forget her focus on other things,
2006-09-28 02:44:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you ditched her and broke her heart then some abuse could be expected and you are going to have to learn to deal with it. Once she gets a new boyfriend it will likely stop. If you show that the abuse is not getting to you (even though it is) then she will have less reason to go on.
If she ditched you then get out and find a new girl, take up a new hobby and get over her
2006-09-28 04:03:59 · answer #4 · answered by Martin14th 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make a rule for your life to avoid abusive relationships. Develop a positive view of yourself and seek out healthier relationships. Write down the top 10 things you value in a relationship.
2006-09-28 02:41:05 · answer #5 · answered by jom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bless your heart, it hurts does nt it! And I know you will not believe me when I say, you will get over her, and meet lots more girls before you find the right one. Better now, then later.
As for your friends, they ain't friends if they choose you over her.
Strike out and get out, think of something that you have always wanted to do, or learn, and get yourself over there, meet like minded folks, the more you meet and make friends with the better, remember you meet their friends to, so it grows! Fill your life with lots of new and fun things, the world is your oyster! Remember no one feels sorry for someone who is already feeling sorry for themselves!
Don't become a recluse, remember onwards and upwards, you know you are worth it!
2006-10-01 15:12:21 · answer #6 · answered by SUPER-GLITCH 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is very normal, the feeling of loss will always be there, and u are lucky u have a reason to forget her (the abuse) some people dont. just try to move on and try to distract urself with other meaningful activities. it will take time to heal but you will. it will be easier as time pass...and always remember that u are the master of urself, dont let anyone or anything overpower YOU
2006-09-28 02:01:33 · answer #7 · answered by ♦cat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is the way it is with breakups...especially if you were going out for a while. If you are young, which I am assuming is the case, it is sometimes very hard to move on from a relationship. Just try to go out with your friends and do the things that you used to do.
2006-09-28 02:01:15 · answer #8 · answered by James B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is she suffering this much over you? Get your mates to make you go out and start building a life without her. Can you get a dog? Their devotion is really helpful after relationship breakup. Also it will give you something else to love.
2006-09-28 03:36:48 · answer #9 · answered by yvonne c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time to regroup go to new places and meet new people .
Clean up your act and make a better life .
Today is the first day of the rest of your life be happy .
2006-09-28 02:12:01 · answer #10 · answered by Elaine814 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋