It seems like more and more I am having bad luck with people..I mean is it that hard to be considerate towards another person?? I wish I could find a true friend who is down to earth and care about my feelings..Is there anyone out there who is considerate or feel the same way I do?
2006-09-27 18:46:57 · 18 answers · asked by lrmakeithappen 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Wow. I could have written this same question myself. I totally understand where you're coming from as I've been in the same exact situation much too often. I think I'm considerate and down to earth, so it's not everyone that's mean.
2006-09-27 18:50:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its hard to say if there are any considerate people left these days. I've had it rough when i lived in San Diego, and the people that said would help me just made my life a lot harder, especially when i told them i wanted to go to college. I know where you coming from, and its can get to the point where you ask if there any true friends out there. Don't worry, the good news is that there are still plenty of considerate people out there, keep your hopes high and try not to let life get you down. Peace!
2006-09-28 02:03:51 · answer #2 · answered by Seraphiel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel im a pretty nice person and definitely considerate and caring,theres not to many nice people out there but theres a few still left,especially when you do ask a question and expect caring and considerate people to answer nicely,but we live in an ugly world.
2006-09-28 02:04:23 · answer #3 · answered by alwayssmiling 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am quite considerate and down to earth, and I pity those people who are not and have a flimsy, "hot" appearing attitude facade.
Just remember that if you are having problems with people its they who have a problem and not you. You are a sensitive person, and the world, especially America, really needs those.
"Its funny, in this age, people are so busy with thier contacts and cellphones, but they are getting lonlier everyday"---Switchfoot.
What we all need is what you are looking for, a kind and caring human being. I am that person because I am deeply hurt when I see people not reaching their full potential because of thier thoughts.
2006-09-28 02:47:22 · answer #4 · answered by splintercellgod17 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey. right here. in michigan. I've been a waitress and my last job was massage therapy. So I'm very down to earth and compassionate. I try to sympathize with others when they are down. Sometimes I even cry when I see others cry because I can relate to their pain at times. Or it just makes me sad to see them hurting. Some might think it's being too soft, but I'd rather be too soft than too hard. There are too many hard people in this world. So don't feel like you are the only caring person left. :) Keep your chin up.
2006-09-28 01:57:07 · answer #5 · answered by Mel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel the same way U do. But, I think, I know who are to be worth my consideration! You can find good friend in me!
2006-09-28 02:08:27 · answer #6 · answered by ~Raju~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are considerate people but they take advantage of us. I basically just analyze people and then u will be able to determine who will be true to u. Being considerate can get people hurt. They hurt your feelings and take advantage of the whole situation.. Be careful and watch out for the inconsiderate people.
2006-09-28 02:05:56 · answer #7 · answered by good4u06@verizon.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I definatly know what you mean! I also have trouble with meeting people who seem to not really care about how i feel but i would go out of my way for them no matter what because thats what a true friend does. it is hard not to have the same in return from other people. your not alone!
2006-09-28 02:47:16 · answer #8 · answered by blue_1534 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not everyone can be a considerate person. To me, being considerate equals to being selfless. Most of us are selfish at times if now all the time. We have our own life to live and thus, we cannot give in to others' need at all times.
2006-09-28 01:51:03 · answer #9 · answered by sassy girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not being considerate might not be a bad thing. someone that did that(not being considerate) might really care for you and hope that you will change for the better. i would be extremely mean to my friends, at some point of time, if i think that its time they change their attitude or anything. =x
2006-09-28 02:00:15 · answer #10 · answered by sqwertx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋