I don't like my best friend's fiancé and I think that she's making a big mistake marrying him.
I just don't like to be obliged to be there just because I'm here best friend. I really would like to enjoy her wedding party but I do think that her fiancé doesn't deserve her!!!
2006-09-27 18:46:38 · 11 answers · asked by ♥ jolie ♥ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
she is your friend and if you don't go to her wedding party you will hurt her and she probably will hold it against you if it ever comes up that you don't like him. Shes your friend and she needs you...He may not deserve her but do you think your friend deserves to be abandoned by her best friend on her wedding day? Be there for her not for him. If your really her friend you will be there.
2006-09-27 18:54:28 · answer #1 · answered by Charmed 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if your best friend know how you feel then all you can do is show her support. Stay by her side so that when she falls you can be there to catch her and help her rebound. She will love you for that. If you go the selfish route then she will not be there for you when you make mistakes. Remember we all make mistakes and often don't listen to others, even our best friends, but the support is most important in the end that will build even stronger relationship for the two of you.
Suck it up and wish her the best but also let her know early on that you just don't feel right about him. but don't bring it up again unless she asks. let her know you will support her decision.
Good luck and go to the wedding. You might meet your husband there. LOL
2006-09-28 02:12:02 · answer #2 · answered by sslender9 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as a best friend u must tell her that u don't like her fiance and give her evidence for that but don't present it in the way that u hurt ur frdship.B in a good mood while talking to her if she justify ur q just go along and hang around in her wedding
i hope u will fulfil the responsibility of a true freind if u r one and good luck
2006-09-28 02:36:26 · answer #3 · answered by adi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make an appearance for your friend's sake. Take your bf or someone close to you along so you wont be bored to death. Also enjoy urself a lot and dont pay much attention to her fiance except being polite when neccessary.
2006-09-28 02:09:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do yourself a favor and stop acting this way now, if you don't you will lose your best friend. If she is marrying him then she loves him and feels that he is good enough for her and that alone should be enough for you to tolerate him in social settings. You need to be there to support her and share in her memories. Don't alienate yourself and make her suffer just because you don't like her man. Suck it up, wish her well, and be there for her.
2006-09-28 01:49:58 · answer #5 · answered by Rawrrrr 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ouch. I think you should go. I know how you feel, girl. Trust me. Most guys don't deserve the girl they are with, but with best friends, it hits a nerve. But as your best friend, you have to be there to support her decision because thats what friends do. And when she snaps out of it and comes to her senses and decides to leave this guy, you can be there for her too. (and you can tell her "i told you so")! LOL
2006-09-28 01:52:51 · answer #6 · answered by MoMoney23 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
ask yourself this first of all are you really gonna be her best friend if u dont go?is she happy?if she is then why arent u?what makes u not like this guy anyway?
2006-09-28 02:22:27 · answer #7 · answered by fadlfkasd 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should support your friend. There might be something in him you don't see. And if there isn't and it all falls apart, she will need your friendship.
2006-09-28 01:59:41 · answer #8 · answered by Bessie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"JUST because you are her best friend"? you should care more about friendships..and if your friend is happy with her choice you should try and be happy for her...you sure you are not feeling jealous?
2006-09-28 01:56:22 · answer #9 · answered by Mila 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is for your best friend, it's not for you. Be there for her if you are a true friend.
2006-09-28 02:06:15 · answer #10 · answered by winkcat 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋