Why do girls fall in love with married guys knowingly?

Question

It is not easy for any one involved once this relationship matures. Share your experiences and advice

Answer 1

Forbidden Fruit. Best is to get out of the relationship quick.

Answer 2

Wow. I'm straight and not afraid to rate other guys, but... That picture is just way too goofy looking for me to give you an honest opinion. I say that in the best way possible, but the huge smile and the contortions of your facial muscles are kind of throw-offs. Pictures suck at capturing a person's physical appearance anyway. Yeah, I know what you mean though. I remember getting bullied something horrible when I was a younger kid, in middle school. I had horribly protruding ears, a long, skinny neck, and a funny nose. None of the good-looking girls in my school would even talk to me, let alone go out with me. As time has gone by, I think I've gotten a *lot* better looking. Nobody has said anything to me about my appearance in years, but the insecurity still remains, even after all this time. It's just something that takes a very long time to leave, I suppose. I don't know how old you are, but in all likelihood, things will improve as you age. That's how it seems to work with men. And not all pretty girls only like the best looking guys. The majority, yeah, but that's because they're superficial morons, shallow and worthless for anything except making babies. There are the select few though, who actually have hearts, and like people for who they are on the inside as well as out.

Answer 3

I had met a lady who loved a married man. My analysis opines that there can be many varied reasons. Young girl falls for matured married man, as the people around her, ex. her parents, elders, teachers etc etc keep advising her to her frustration but never dare to explain her the negative impact of her acts. She would naturally fall for some one (either man or woman) who accepts her thoughts or has some of similar thoughts. Men who look out for such girls have the habbit of talking positive to her and impress her.

This occurs in office life, as the girl would just have entered the earning life may be due to family requirements and the man takes prey of her just because she is innocent and maintainance free. In other words he would get to enjoy two women at the cost of one.

Too filthy a topic to discuss but it happens.

Lets take it the other way round, a woman attracting a man for her selfishness, not thinking about spoiling a happy family of the man.

This happens only when there is no one in her family to take initiative of getting her married. There are so many families below and 'in' poverty line who depend on the earning of female family member. Her prudent mind ignores the consequences and thinks in a rather selfish way of flirting.

Answer 4

LOVE is kind of feeling that is uncontrollable, even though knowingly the other party is married or not! But try to bear in mind, try not to ruin a happy family, the kid will suffer at the end and it is not fair to their married parties as well.

Answer 5

I read it once in a mag that there is the ego satisfaction of taking away the partner. But more likely it seems that we have created such virtualities in our relationships that we long for a real care & love which is almost nonexistent now. It was long endangered & now seems wipedout from our lives. Hence it does not matter to a person of what their current marital status is as long as their own feelings are being cared for.

Answer 6

You don't choose who you fall in love with. Usually married men work harder for the attention of women. They are bored and looking for excitment. When they finally get the girl they do new and exciting stuff with them that they can't do with their wives. Thus the women falls for the married man.

Answer 7

It's somehow the adventure and the thrills that it gives them. The satisfaction that it gives and thats somehow u guys are not being caught and also the pride that somehow that girl is able to get u off hook from ur wife, they somehow think that they are better or superior than ur wife. It is somehow a competition to them. U r somehow a PRIZE to them.

Answer 8

1) Money
2)Love
3)Experience
4)Fun

Answer 9

They think that they are special and are "better" than the wife, and/or they may think that they are his "soul mate." I guess it stays in the back of their mind that he will leave his wife eventually, because he won't be able to live without her - but in all reality, the wife takes priority and in most cases the mistress ends up hurt and alone.

Answer 10

Because Married Men are trained and it saves time, money. Also they can make love better then new one.