Have you ever stayed with someone after you knew it was over because they gave you money, or because you didn't want to hurt them, or because you didn't want to be alone? What made you finally leave?
2006-09-27 18:28:27 · 20 answers · asked by Nicki Lee 6 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
yes becuase didnt want hurt her feelings. she was madly in love, to me it was just sex.
2006-09-27 18:32:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Unfortunately, I have. I stayed in a miserable relationship for months because I was afraid to be alone, which I now realize had a horrible effect on my self-esteem. I only left when he started getting abusive - the last time we were together he called me a f*cking whore and threatened to push me out of his car. After that I told him I never wanted to see him again and it was a huge weight off my shoulders.
2006-09-28 01:40:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
At some point in the process you come to the realization that the situation is having a detrimental effect on your well being. It then becomes a matter of survival. You either choose to survive and leave accepting the repercussions or you stay and die a long and painful death.
2006-09-28 01:35:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, I'm kinda trapped in one right now with a friend. We're just friends, but let's just say that promises made aren't being kept, and she's really taking advantage of my kindness. I'm keeping my mouth shut and being as tolerant as I can. I'm obligated to see this through for a while longer, but I need to be rescued. Anyone?
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2006-09-28 01:37:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I have, I stayed for a combination of factors, I stayed because I was the only steady male figure in her childrens life, And I wtill had hope that thinkgs could work out... But 3 years later it was even worse, so I told the kids what was up... Now they like me even more,cause when she starts a fight I just leave... and now with MY child I am glad we are split. but I would like to be together so I could see my boy more
2006-09-28 01:53:20 · answer #5 · answered by Maxwell Smart(ypants) 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Never trapped just complacent. That's why I came onto Yahoo Answers because I needed to change something in my life. And I was the only one who can do that for me most of the time. I am surrounded by IDIOTS!
2006-09-28 01:33:55 · answer #6 · answered by JustLynn 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yep, I had a girlfriend who was insanely possessive of me and I wanted to get out but at the same time didn't want to hurt her feelings. I don't even remember what I did to end it...
2006-09-28 01:33:28 · answer #7 · answered by PAL 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
because i didn't want to be alone and my common sense finally gave me the strength i needed
2006-09-28 01:31:10 · answer #8 · answered by Passionate 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i've been trapped in 3 at the same time
2006-09-28 01:33:58 · answer #9 · answered by kurleylovescheese 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, but I was trapped in a different way. I lived w/my boyfriend and he hit me and treated me cruelly. I stayed w/him because he told me he'd kill himself if I left. Turns out all abusers say that. I left him though.
2006-09-28 01:35:01 · answer #10 · answered by Somechicknamednicole 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Yes I have.
Just wanted a fresh start.
2006-09-28 01:40:37 · answer #11 · answered by Judas Rabbi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋