well my boyfriend hasnt hit me for along time and today we got in a fight for no reason this is what happen my boyfriend is always mean to my 5 year of nephew when we go pick him up my boyfriend is always complaining about picking him up, when we go eat the 1st thing he says is im not buying ur nephew anything, even when i tell him i will pay him back he say no, well today his lil sister wanted me to buy some fun and i told my boyfriend (i was joking cuz i did like his sis and that not her fault) you dont buy my nephew anything so no, well he got so mad and started yelling at me and trying to fight i gave him the money and told him i was joking but he just was hitting me and being rude was that my fault or not
2006-09-27 18:28:12 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It is never acceptable to let someone abuse you in any way and that includes emotionally, physically, or sexually. You, and your nephew, do not deserve to be treated that way. If he really cared about you and your family he would treat you with much more respect than he does. Stay clear of people like this ... they will only bring you down in life and make you feel inferior. You are special to many and don't let this jerk ruin your days!
2006-09-27 18:33:58 · answer #1 · answered by michelle05 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know how old you are but I'm guessing you're very young. I suggest you leave this so called "boyfriend" of yours before things get worst. For some reason he has gotten the idea that he can control you by hitting you. We live in a world where abusive relationships often turn deadly. Do you ever watch the News? How well do you know this guy? You seem like a real sweet girl that's dating a complete jerk. Please put a stop to it now, and move on with your life. It may not seem like a big deal to you but if you let it continue it'll get worst and may lead you into a miserable life full of regrets.
2006-09-28 01:50:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is wrong with you people. Do you think it's OK for anyone to hit. The answer is NO NO NO HELL NO. This is definitely not your fault, even if you put your self in a situation there is no excuse for hitting you. You need to find someone who loves you for you and is able to take a joke.
Just leave and find someone who will respect you and your family. Cuz if you doesn't like your family then he does not love you!!!!!!!
2006-09-28 15:59:16 · answer #3 · answered by didi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have to say this, you must want better for your life to escape what is known as ABUSE. You have to look in the mirror and say do I want better? Think if your nephew see's him hitting you or if you have a kid with this guy, what message are you sending, "Its ok to hit and verbally abuse women." Please get out now while you can. It doesn't matter if he hasn't hit you for a long time or not, one time is one time to many. You have to say I want better, because 95% of abusers will never change and many of their victims do die because of the abuse. Its not your fault what happened you are a victim but that situation only shows the potentional for further violence. God Bless You Deserve Better
2006-09-28 01:38:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you crazy? Why are you going to be with someone who hits you? That is not a man! You need to have enough self respect to know to leave. I was with someone who was abusive to me and everytime we fought I always thought it was my fault, but it wasn't. I don't care what you do he should never hit you. You need to get out, it will get worse never better! He has a problem and its not you!
2006-09-28 01:47:32 · answer #5 · answered by Cy Hante' 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Poor you! you must be love him so much that you couldn't decide what to do......
My opinion to you is take eveyone's suggestion and stay away from your boyfriend!!
You are not a saint to save his world, he can't change himself while you both still together...which mean he will hit you again in the near future.
For your own safe.........let go of him!!
2006-09-28 01:50:23 · answer #6 · answered by Shar-Ching 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this what you want from a boyfriend?
You should really reconcider dating someone who treats you like that. If you value yourself at all you'll make the right choice, if you value yourself as much as he does you'll make the wrong choice.
Best of luck with whatever you choose.
2006-09-28 01:31:08 · answer #7 · answered by Chris H 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
your boyfriend is a danger to you ,what he did is called assault ,people in your situation always say''but he is really a nice guy once you get to know him''........there is some one out there who will love and cherish you as the person you are and he is not that person,your to good for him .leave him before he causes you real pain ,both physically and mentally
2006-09-28 01:39:32 · answer #8 · answered by gry w 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to leave him. Hits you once shame on him, hits you twice shame on you. Not a healthy relationship at all.
2006-09-28 01:32:36 · answer #9 · answered by Amanda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LEAVE HIM NOW BEFORE YOU END UP DEAD. He doesn't give a crap about you or your family. don't be another statistic girl get out now
2006-09-28 03:09:57 · answer #10 · answered by ♥ Army Wife ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋