My girlfriend "accidentally" left, in a shared folder on the hard drive of our PC, some pix of her naked taken by her ex (they had been apart for more than a year) when she slept at his place one night after we had had a row. She swears that she didn't have sex with him. Should I believe her? The pix do show a level of intimacy, but not necessarily sexual intimacy.
2006-09-27 18:18:17 · 32 answers · asked by Capt D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Even without the pix, I wouldn't believe her. Having said that, plus everyone else telling you not to believe her, you're going to do the same thing almost every guy does: hang around until one day she either takes you for all you're worth and shares it with some azzhole or she rips out your heart and dances around the fire eating it like the demon she is. No, I'm not bitter.
2006-09-27 18:30:41 · answer #1 · answered by vinny_the_hack 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why should you have any reason NOT to believe her? (and I do wish people would give sensible answers to these questions - calling someone a ho you don't even know! :() so it's possible she left them for you to find maybe thinking they would turn you on! If she had something to hide, she would not have left them there I'm sure. You know she had a BF and that they had sex. You certainly don't know when the pics were taken so they were probably from when she was with him before, although you can't be 100% certain of that I suppose so it all boils down to how well do you know/trust her and how much do you love her and care about her. Unless you're absolutely sure or have reason to believe she's been unfaithful, then don't worry about it. It all boils down to the fact that either you trust her, or you don't.
2006-09-27 18:24:59 · answer #2 · answered by mancunian_nick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should more worried as to why she would go straight round to her ex's house after a row. You don't say how long you have been together but if it is not long, do you really need all this extra hassle. Seriously think about your relationship, can you trust her, I would more bothered as to why she would go there. If she says she didn't sleep with him, you either have to believe her and move forwards OR you end it now.
2006-09-27 18:36:38 · answer #3 · answered by radiant 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is your worry here dude? Is it if she had sex that guy or any other guy? What u need to find out is whether she is still a virgin or not. Well if it is about having sex with this guy, it depends on how much you trust her, of which I dont think you do.
A relationship without trust is as good as dead. You need to look deep inside yourself and see if you really love her. I dont think you do.
2006-09-27 18:46:23 · answer #4 · answered by Eddie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really hate to say it,but the old saying:'There's a sucker born every minute' applies in this case.She went to his place,had a nude picture taken,& didn't have sex?The fact that she went to his place would be eneough for me,never mind the rest.If you stay with that 'lady',you are heading for a lot of heart-ache.
2006-09-27 21:08:30 · answer #5 · answered by michael k 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well seems like the general consensus is that she slept with him.
and im afraid that i would have to agree
the fact that after an argument she went running off to him and then let him take naked pics of her for me would mean it was over with her anyway.
there is no way you can trust someone like that.
just hope you find someone better that don't go running off and getting ex's to snap them in the buff just to get at you.
2006-09-27 20:00:41 · answer #6 · answered by magic_monkey78 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sorry dude, but ur girls been doing the dirty. how can you be naked, with an ex, and not become aroused + let it lead to the inevitable... it jus doesn't happen.
confront her + ask her to tell you EXACTLY what happens.
if you believe her after she looks you in the eye + says she didn't sleep with her ex, then forget about the whole mess + get on with things. BUT, will you be able to forget? i doubt it...
2006-09-27 18:31:39 · answer #7 · answered by manca300 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She did. Sorry to tell you that, but please... wouldn't you sleep with your ex-girlfriend if she were naked in a hotel room with you. C'mon man, no friend or ex-bf could resist that. Plus, if she let him take her pictures naked, which i consider the main dish, sleeping with him would only be the dessert...
2006-09-27 18:25:02 · answer #8 · answered by Horumaket 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, she was intimate with him in whatever way. There was once a man that said 'I never slept with that woman', I still call that cheating.. no matter what Clinton says
2006-09-27 18:19:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i know if my girlfriend found a picture of me naked round an ex's house, she would be just as curious to know the truth as you are. its quite obvious she is devious mate. dont bother with her or simply get your own back!
2006-09-27 18:33:30 · answer #10 · answered by djin_fanatic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋