Most of the cancers i know are always holding grudges against people. I mean some of the grudges are like over 10 years old. I also find that most cancers that i know use their grudges as an excuse not to be ambitious. Has anyone had this experience with cancers?
2006-09-27 17:54:53 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Horoscopes
yes i have actually dated a cancer so i know from experience and i wish i knew this about him before i started to date him,thats 1 of the reasoms why our relationship didnt work out-they hold grudges and me im easily to forgive and forget about something in a second,im stubborn but i forgive---they will say they are over it but come to figure out that there not over it foreal--they bring up stufe from the past that should have stayed the past and yes they use grudges as excuses-you can do something little and they have a problem with it so thats why cancers for me will only be friends------a learn for a cancer is as long as you stay stuck in the past you'll never get to the future happily!
2006-09-27 18:23:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I'm a Cancer, and I admit we do hold grudges but thats because we are just very closed in about what we do, and we need someone who can handle that. So yes we are stubborn, and we do use grudges as an excuse, but it's because we just dont want to go threw that experience AGAIN we just hurt real easily, so about the friend thing we like to keep close friends not a lot, just people we can trust.
2006-09-27 23:23:31 · answer #2 · answered by Lakishia 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2006-09-29 06:07:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have had this experience with cancers. They get and stay very indignant for the longest time.
They have mighty long memories, and seem to bring things back up, that others have totally forgotten about. But you look at them and you can see that they are still gripeing about it. It's a cancer trait to be quite stubborn and defensive at times.
I was born on the cusp of cancer and another star sign, so I speak from experience as well.
2006-09-27 17:57:20 · answer #4 · answered by tui 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My cancer ex-boyfriend definitely holds grudges for a long time. Hopefully not for years though!
2006-09-28 03:34:48 · answer #5 · answered by lkjjkgjfj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never really noticed. Most of the people I know don't hold grudges.
2006-09-27 18:02:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes... i am a cancer and i am known for holding a grudge for years on end... i have known those to hold them to the grave
2006-09-27 18:02:44 · answer #7 · answered by psychobillyredneckwoman 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cancers kill me so hard. I was best friends with a Cancer for a few years and...I don't know, she just hates everyone. She never wanted any new friends, she got mad at me when I made friends. Cancers are a crazy bunch.
2006-09-27 19:54:05 · answer #8 · answered by yourelyingivebeenyou 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
My sister is a cancer, and she still yells at me for stuff I don't remember doing because I was so young... It's rediculous!
2006-09-28 02:08:23 · answer #9 · answered by youdontneedtoknowme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no they're actually mad cool my best friend is one and yes we fight but we get over it although i'm the first to say sorry!
2006-09-28 10:56:14 · answer #10 · answered by umm...yea 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋