Either your drinking or theirs? How long before one of you realized its a problem and then ended it?
2006-09-27 17:49:56 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes it has. My ex would go to the bars and come home drunk a few days out of the week. I told her to quit or I would leave. She stopped for awhile but eventually she went back. She would go to a bar then come home and accuse me of cheating, even if I was sleeping or just watching T.V. She would vomit and I would have to clean it up. Her daughter which was 4 years old at the time never saw her mom hardly. She would get into fights and all sorts of trouble. I eventually left and now I am glad that I never have to deal with that again. Alcohol is definitely trouble. Name one good thing that you can get from it?
2006-09-27 17:59:29 · answer #1 · answered by RIDLEY 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I did not quit drinking until I was caught and charged with DWI. I got the charge reduced to reckless operation. Part of my sentence was to take an 8 hour course on a Saturday at a local university. I went to the course half lit from being out the night before. I spent 8 hours to here one little question. Can you trace your all your problems back to your drinking? I did that an after wards I quit my drinking.
2006-09-28 01:01:21 · answer #2 · answered by READER 1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband was a big drinker when we met. He drank a case a day. I would tell him if he wanted to kill himself to go ahead. I even went & bought it for him. It wasn't long after that he quit. He said I took the fun out of it. He don't drink any more. I relize a lot of people it's not that easy. I think there needs to be a lot of talking between couples. I stode beside him the whole time. Good luck, Becky
2006-09-28 00:55:44 · answer #3 · answered by Becky H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I was kinda naive and I had already become engage to this person before I found the cases and cases of jack Daniels in a closet and started to understand his sometime different behavior. I got out fast and would advise any one else to do the same.
2006-09-28 00:59:40 · answer #4 · answered by vaulene2000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, many times, its not worth it, although a beer wont hurt as long its not affecting there work, family, lifestyle & relationship, some turns into a monster when drinking & them kind doesnt need to be drinking,
2006-09-28 00:54:33 · answer #5 · answered by ------------------- 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My father was a severe alcholic, he was with my mother for over 20 years (dating/marriage) and when my father never realized he had a problem, he continued to get worse, and my mother left him, they divorced, he still hasnt really figured out his problem and hes still single..
2006-09-28 00:53:12 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its best when one admit and listen to concerned friends. it never too late to stop as long as one listens and takes positive actions.
i didnt till ended up in bed the next morning but in someone's else beside me!
2006-09-28 01:00:54 · answer #7 · answered by superyoyogirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes mine in one year i have seen it happen to a lot of my friends a hole lot of times
2006-09-28 00:54:00 · answer #8 · answered by freeman3905@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋