My ex and I broke up about a month ago, we'd been dating for nearly 3 years. He told me we needed a break and we'd talk about it in a month or so. Well it's been a month and he still wants another 2 weeks. We still see eachother every second day, talk every day and hang out. We have slept together because we promised that if things didn't work out we'd be faithful to eachother for at least 2 months.
Well in this month he's been tearing me apart, I think he's testing me. One night we're watching a movie and cuddling and f*ck, then the next day he's calling and telling me to get the f*ck out of his life. Then the following day he calls to appologize and asls to go out for coffe cuz he wants to see me. This goes back and forth constantly. Why is he doing this to me? What should I do? My friend that's been talking to him says he wants me back, and when I asked him about it he snapped and said she's lying, who di I believe?
2006-09-27 17:48:37 · 18 answers · asked by MaNdYb 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
okay, when we broke up, I kicked HIM out. Then he came groveling back, and I told him he'd have to make it up to me, that's when he told me we'd "re-evaluate" in a month. He told me to listen to the song "Hate me" by Blue October because that's how he feels. But every second day he loves me, and the next he says he doesn't anymore. I think he's really confused. So am I. My friend is involved because he started texting her and stuff to see how I was doing and such.
2006-09-27 18:03:33 · update #1
Girl I'm going through the exact same thing right now and I know how it feels. So I think you should give up on him now and see different people. I'm still waiting and we go through this all the time. It sucks. And its stopping today. Email me at awesome_angel_90@yahoo.com if you have anymore questions about this.
2006-09-27 17:55:42 · answer #1 · answered by Kelly J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello
First thing you have to think about is if he really loved you would he do this. I suggest that you need to really ask yourself if this guy is really worth it. If he really loved you he would do everything possible not to hurt you. I suggest you turn the tables and tell the guy that until he gets his act together you will not talk to him. As for him coming back for nookie I think he sees that as a free source. The power of nookie is strong, withholding it will also test to see if he is just using you. And lastly be patient. people sometimes have difficult times in their life and really do not know how to handle it. Be tough.
2006-09-28 01:05:15 · answer #2 · answered by Richard W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, seeing someone you "broke up" with "every second day, talk to every day..." is not breaking up. Secondly, he is jerking you around, playing with your head because you are letting him. He just wants to see how much shi* your willing to put up with to be with him. My advice: End the relationship. No talking on phone, no seeing each other, no text messages. Does what he's doing to you feel good? No. So do what's best for you and find someone who will treat you with respect.
2006-09-28 00:57:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
This whole thing is a disaster. Forget about him and move on with your life. He is wasting your time. He doesn't sound like a good catch anyway. He sounds like a selfish, immature guy who wants to have a girl available whenever he has the urge. I can't believe you would even think about getting back with him, let alone be sleeping with him. Yuck.
2006-09-28 00:58:13 · answer #4 · answered by No Shortage 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like hes got some problems, and that he isnt commited to you, and just wants to keep you in the dark, just incast he cant find anyone else, I think you should start looking for someone better, we are out here, you just got to look. You could do a lot better, all you got to do is ask....
2006-09-28 00:52:31 · answer #5 · answered by wizzard 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Who needs that crap? Sounds like he doesn't know what the hell he wants. Go date more self-confident people who aren't going to use you for a piece of *** and discard you until the next time they get a *****, cuz clearly that's what this guy is doing. You can do better.
2006-09-28 00:52:30 · answer #6 · answered by ?princesshousewife? 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He is playing too many games. It's time for you to move on and find someone who doesn't.
Call his bluff and tell him you are ending it for good and then do! You deserve better then this yoyo game. Go out and find yourself someone who actually wants to have a real relationship with you.
2006-09-28 00:54:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
'cause you are his piss ant if you get pregnant in the process and he starts to treat the baby in this manner would you stand for it or would you still be asking what did we do to you if you don't get the hell out of that relationship then i'm afraid you will deserve what you get 'cause it ain't that much love in the world. or are you stuck on the dic* girl realize that you found his, you can find another one .
2006-09-28 01:01:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
to tell you the truth i think he is playing a game with you or he is looking any way YOU DON'T PLAY GAMES WITH LOVE that don't work well i hope that it works out for you let him know you don't like what he is doing to your mind i think she is telling you the truth you have to talk to him and fix this now good luck to the both of you
2006-09-28 01:08:01 · answer #9 · answered by freeman3905@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to sit down and have a heart to heart with him. Let him know how much he is hurting you, and tell him that you had hoped for more respect and consideration from him. If he can't make up his mind, then tell him you'll have to, and although you love him to pieces, you might have to let him go for your own well-being.
2006-09-28 00:52:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋