We have been friends for about 3yrs. and since that time she calls me like everyday. Either my cell phone or home and I don't like to talk on the phone , I like to have time to myself and with my family. Sometimes I have just did'nt answer and she calls a couple times more times. I feel like I am being smothered by my friend, I don't know what to do, I don't want to hurt her feelings. But, over the years it has gotten worst. I need some advice.
2006-09-27 17:46:03 · 14 answers · asked by sandysweet 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
well, i have had a relationship like this and it goes to wonder why we let it go on for so long and never say anything until one this person goes too far. you must tell this person how you feel. you dont have be mean about it but if it get to the point where you feel you have then go ahead. there is a way to go about things. let this person that you will no longer have this going on. you are looking to find yourself and some along time. tell this person the rules of your relationship. if this person keep on doing the same things let them go. you need no more trouble that what you already have. life is too short for the bs.be happy.listen to your heart. 9 times out of ten we never listen to what our heart says and just let things go on.
2006-09-27 17:53:46 · answer #1 · answered by liljov2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her that you don't like talking on the phone. I've had that happen a couple of times.
2006-09-27 17:49:56 · answer #2 · answered by Kelly J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's always better to stay what you feel once in a while...
meet her and spend some time with her and pull up this topic... and tell her that you hate spending time in the phone... try to convince her
if that doesn't work plan "B" sometimes it's better to play fire with fire... you call her in odd times so that she wont need to call you and then put a short chat and say you hav to leave...
if that doesn't work plan "C" she really is a tube light... tell her "Look here i need my of my own so get the hell out of here..."
you wont see that pest no more...
but remember it's always great to hav ppl who care, around you
2006-09-27 17:54:44 · answer #3 · answered by fauzaan_786 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should talk to her and tell her what your problems are. Do Not
give it all out in one scene, but just have some time and make phone call times. If shes a good friend she will understand
2006-09-27 17:49:54 · answer #4 · answered by lance 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should indirectly tell her that lately you have felt like you need time to yourself and for your family. Tell her that it seems like your phone is always ringing. If she doesn't get the hint, you will have to gently tell her to back off a little.
2006-09-27 17:48:44 · answer #5 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break it to her politely, tell her you need some alone time and family time, but you still want to have a good friendship w/ her, you just need a little space.
2006-09-27 17:48:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u really need to be very cautious whil talking to her.. just make her undersatnd the things that u cant be availabale all the time.. u need to manage thinsg ur life ur family evrerything.. tell her u love her a lot and ask her to undersatnd your position also :) i m sure if she a true frend she wil surely undersatnd
2006-09-27 19:25:53 · answer #7 · answered by gorgeous girl . 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-09-27 17:53:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
be honest. tell her you dont like to talk on the phone. tell her you are going to spend time with family. tell her you are going to be by yourself. if shes a good friend she will understand.
2006-09-27 17:49:02 · answer #9 · answered by jobugg257 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Voice mail.......call her back when it is convienient for you. You can say, sorry I am just getting back to you, but I was with so and so or running an errand for my mom etc. If she gets pissed, tell her how immature she is acting.
2006-09-27 17:48:32 · answer #10 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋