LADIES Why get U get upset when we look at other women?

Question

I am 36 and married for 2 years together for 6. I love my wife and have no real desire to be with anyone else. I just like to say, admire the view What's the big deal ? Note that I have been this way from the start

Answer 1

I love it when my hubby admires other women in my presence.......Only makes him want me more when we get home.........No personal hang ups here!!!!!!!!!

Answer 2

I think it is the way we are raised. And it depends on how you look at these other women.
If you are drooling all over the place about another woman yes we get upset. We don't think you appreciate what you have with us esp if we have had children together. Our bodies don't always look the same after giving birth.
If on the other hand you notice them but are not drooling, then for some of us it is not so bad.
We like to feel like the only important woman besides your mother and or daughters in your life.
Try not being so obvious about it. Also remember to tell your wife she is important to you and not will you are looking at other women. Talk to her about it calmly. This could help clear up things between the two of you.
I have been with my man for a long time also. He still looks once in while. Sometimes we look together or I will point on pretty women to him. Most of the time he says uh and keeps walking.

Answer 3

Personally, I have no problem if my husband glances at another woman, as long as he's not drooling all over her while in my presence and disrespecting me in the process. But from a woman's pt of view, it makes us feel as though we are not good enough for u that u need to look at another woman. It makes us think "What am I, chopped liver?"

I understand that men are more visually stimulated but u shouldn't look to the point of pissing your wife off and making her feel disrespected and ugly in the process.

Answer 4

Looking has never hurt anyone, I LOOK at other guys, my hubby looks and other women, but neither of us freak out over it, it is the TOUCHING that will get you in trouble. Women and men who react that way are often insecure, try explaining to your wife that while you like to "look" it is in her arms that you sleep at night, assure her of your love. It may take some time, but she'll soon realize it IS her you love and want, there is nothing wrong with merely admiring the view, especially the way a lot of young women dress today. Good Luck hon.

Answer 5

I'd only get upset if he was very obvious about it - I would consider it rude. I don't have a problem with discreet looking - I "look", too, but I try to make sure no one notices. Luckily, my husband is very polite, and while he might glance, he doesn't stare. Self-control is an attractive feature in a man.

Answer 6

WOW have you no respect for your wife??????? I don't care if a woman is nude at the table next to us at I-hop if it would hurt my wife for me to look and admire (and I bet you stare like a fool dog in heat) then i would rather do what is right for my wife and ignore the nude woman.......

Answer 7

Looking isn't the problem. I think that it's the 'way' you look.
We all look, women & men. But I do think that you need to show a little discretion.

Answer 8

Well to tell you the truth it is very disrespectful. men don't like it if we chat up o hottie or if they look at us. but she married you that way so she should not be upset ,,,,,,,,, good luck

Answer 9

Because it seems like u wishes that those woman were us, and feels like we aint enough for u man.

Answer 10

It's still an exclusivity issue

Answer 11

bcos they feel insecure when u do that... girls love to be wanted (hey every one does) and they feel neglected when you look at other females...