so i got mad at my best friend because he was acting like a total perv. he's been bugging me ever since. we haven't talked to each other for 3 days but he is, or was my best friend and the only boy i could trust is he still my friend or what should i do?
2006-09-27 17:17:33 · 6 answers · asked by mexicanangel0108 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I suspect that he's acting out because he is into you romantically. He's probably dropped several hints that you didn't get, or simply ignored. Most guy friends of girls are actually interested in them romantically, but can't close the deal, or are waiting for you to make the first move, or break up with your current boyfriend. He's frustrated that you still consider him only as a friend after he's been there for you through thick and thin. He's just at the end of the rope and this is his way of telling you to put up or shut up. In his mind, he feels that you've been using him. He's had to give you all the benefits of a boyfriend without any of the romance he wants. You need to sit him down and ask him if he's interested in you romantically. If he is (and if he's being honest), then tell him how you feel about him. If you like him romantically....problem solved. If you don't care about him romantically, tell him that as well. You will lose him because he won't be able to stand being so close, yet so far from you. Let him go so he can find a girl who is into him romantically. Once he gets in a good, healthy relationship, you may have a chance of eventually getting his friendship back - if he's not still holding a candle for you.
Good luck, Girlfriend!
2006-09-27 17:36:32 · answer #1 · answered by Tony G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get away from the perve then, he is bad news unless he has changed
2006-09-27 17:19:57 · answer #2 · answered by Ledzeppelin324 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't have your cake and eat it to. If he is a friend than you have to accept his behaviour, if hes is a pervert, than why would you want such a friend
2006-09-27 17:23:25 · answer #3 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should call him up and ask him to hang out wit you
2006-09-27 17:23:22 · answer #4 · answered by Kelly J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that if he wants you around to stop doing things that bother you!!!
2006-09-27 17:21:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
make me your new bestus friend
2006-09-27 17:19:52 · answer #6 · answered by jac 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋