2006-09-27 17:13:21 · 9 answers · asked by badkitty69_25 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
A lot of women have this problem. I don't but if I did I think I would use sex toys. They can be very intense. Also the on top position puts you in a better position to get aroused because you are basically in charge......good luck...I hope this helps..............
2006-09-27 17:28:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you referring to having an orgasm? That's a fairly common problem, but the more you obsess about it, the worse it can get. Try some sexual aids you can buy in catalogs. They come in plain packages so no one knows what they contain. There are lots of things like vibrators with different speeds and textures, gels that create feelings of warmth, etc. And maybe it's your emotions that are holding you back. Relax and enjoy touching and foreplay. Don't force the issue. The less you worry about it,the better. There's more to loving and sex than "getting off". Leading up to it is often more pleasurable than climaxing.
2006-09-27 17:21:36 · answer #2 · answered by gldjns 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Concentrate. Don't think of anything but the way it feels. Also, have you tried on top? I experience an orgasm really quickly when I am on top. It is my favorite sexual position. It takes me longer in any other position.
2006-09-27 17:23:27 · answer #3 · answered by Gorgeoustxwoman2013 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to learn your own body first. Try masturbating to see what does it for you and then communicate that to your lover. Most importantly, don't think about it and relax.
2006-09-27 17:19:40 · answer #4 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your bored. Try something new and different. Try finding your g-spot or find a partner and explore and expand your sexual horizons-different postions, anal sex, oral sex, maybe include a third partner.
2006-09-27 17:22:16 · answer #5 · answered by Erik D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are plenty of sites that offer this sort of info. Google it.
2006-09-27 17:15:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to concentrate only on your lover
2006-09-27 17:15:00 · answer #7 · answered by ann.natalie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tease. If you know what I mean.
2006-09-27 17:14:52 · answer #8 · answered by divyne_lyght 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
relax and don't want it so much. then it will come naturally
2006-09-27 17:17:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋