I feel that the destiny plays a major role in our lives and what is destined will surely happen. So why don't people understand that one can sort out any problems with love and what does anyone get out of arguing and fighting trivial matters? Can't we sort out these issues with love rather than nagging and quarelling? What does one get at the end of it except for tensions and depression.
2006-09-27 17:00:41 · 10 answers · asked by sweeeeeeeeet sood 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I completely agree with you. That could probably even be applied to the world at large. If we spent more effort in compassion and love and less in war, the world would be so much better.
2006-09-27 17:04:05 · answer #1 · answered by k 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with you about Love being the only and lasting solution, the reasons that I have come up as far as fighting/quarelling is concerned is short term results, just because I shout at someone there I prove a point that I have the upper hand and so get things done my way, but that's not an answer at all the other person hasn't listned to you because you have shouted but would have if you put it across in a different way and that the issue is close to your heart
2006-09-27 17:05:24 · answer #2 · answered by poloneck20 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hun are you married? Yes things always work out through love, but it is not possible to spend everyday with someone and not get into it over at least one silly thing every now and then. Yes I am married. We have an agreement. We never go to bed angery. But all couples have a fight every now and then. People are not perfect. Its bound to happen. Love it what makes you say your sorry and forgive each other and gives you the strength to move on after words.
2006-09-27 17:04:54 · answer #3 · answered by mother_of_bonehead 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree, but the problem is not usually lack of love but lack of proper communication and knowledge of how to fight fairly. Obviously there are constructive ways to "fight" about something the couple does not agree in and both have to come to a compromise or agree to disagree.
Yelling and screaming won't accomplish anything and neither does pride. Not only is effective communication important but listening effectively to the other person is equally important as well. Of course, if the fight is about something insignificant, it would do the couple good to just let it go. Afterall, it's not what the couple fights about that's important but HOW they fight about it.
2006-09-27 17:20:50 · answer #4 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what are you 9 yrs old or what??????? the point to a fight is to communicate your point and a man and a woman who know how to do it right will always solve there disagreements and find compromise....have you never had your own point of view???? and whats with this destiny craaap. wake up kid choose your own path make your own decisions. take control of your life don't just sit there and let it pass you by like some stupid fool who is afraid to take a chance and maybe be happy it sounds like your full of fear about something or things in your life.....
PS you call it a fight most adults call it life and no love does not cure it all you have to work at it just like everything else in life.
2006-09-27 17:22:58 · answer #5 · answered by 4stringthndr 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Try it yourself. You alone are not responsible for any quarrels. No clap without two palms. If you stay dumb when some one is arguing with you, that will only aggravate the temper of the opposite person.
2006-09-27 22:57:38 · answer #6 · answered by sona_d 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Arguments stem from fear, and it is fear, not hate, which is love's true opposite. For example; we lock up prisoners, not because we hate them, per se, but rather, because we fear what their freedom might otherwise cost us if we don't. Thus fear is that which causes us to argue, get jealous, retaliate, feel as if we have been wronged, and feel pained.
2006-09-27 17:08:03 · answer #7 · answered by eric l 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are four things needed for love that being love itself, trust, compassion and companionship so i would say that the ones that are fighting it out are definately missing one of the compounds to love
2006-09-27 17:21:28 · answer #8 · answered by penelope 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
which fanatsy world do you live in Love dont pay the bills
2006-09-27 17:03:33 · answer #9 · answered by jac 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
everybady don't love, some people don't know how.
2006-09-27 17:03:30 · answer #10 · answered by delta s 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋