my last boyfriend was a total jerk even if he was way cute i still ended it plus he lived far away. I havnt had a boyfriend in three months and i dont know why.
I am outgoing and nice and according to my last question i'm not ugly
so wats the prob???
2006-09-27 16:58:41 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
i kno but my last realtionship was short...i need love from somebody and i totally hate being single.
2006-09-27 17:22:27 · update #1
You may be looking too hard for the next guy. Amazing things happen to you when you stop looking so hard for them and start focusing on living your life.
My boyfriend used to be my roommate. We were friends, we hung out all the time. Neither of us was really looking for anything. One night we were watching a movie and we hooked up. Now, we've been together for a year and a half, we have 2 cats, and we talk about eventually getting married.
You have to stop worrying about what you're doing wrong that men aren't jumping at you, and start being you. The right guy is gonna fall head over heels for you. The guys until then are just practice.
2006-09-27 20:49:31 · answer #1 · answered by cndygrl707 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Based on your entry, even though we don't know you, I have the distinct impression that you're not really ready for the commitment. It's quite possible that your partners can see or sense it.
- what expectations do you have from a marriage?
- which of your boyfriends' expectations do YOU meet?
- what's important to you in a lifemate (hint: it has NOTHING to do with being way cute or living far away)
Spend time getting to know the guys you go out with, and try to get past the romance aspect. Ask yourself what kind of husband and life partner he'd make.
As for not having a boyfriend in the last three months, you'll have to look inside yourself to find the answer to this... we just don't know enough about you
Good luck!
2006-09-28 00:10:48 · answer #2 · answered by princessmeltdown 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There probably isn't a problem. Alot of times, guys are too scared to approach a pretty girl. Do you smile at people alot? or do you say mean things and critisize things alot? Boys feel more comfortable around a girl who smiles, than a girl who puts things down all the time. I don't know you so I really can't give you a good answer... but sometimes the best way to get a boyfriend is to actually tell the boy you like him.. most boys are cowards! :)
2006-09-28 00:07:57 · answer #3 · answered by The ugly duckling 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do women feel the need to be with a guy ALL the time? Take some time to yourself, hang out with friends, get some hobbies. Being single is FUN! I spent almost a year being single, because I was just tired of being with so many boys. It was one of the best years of my life! I didn't have to worry about what my boyfriend thought of me, and I could flirt with ANY guy I wanted. Just live your life, be single for a bit, and have fun!
2006-09-28 00:08:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
three months? chill out and enjoy being single. being single means saving money for xmas and birthday's, it means that if you want to go out with the girls, you dont have to make sure that ur man has something planned, being single means you dont have to make sure he isnt cheating on you being single means freedom
not that im saying having a boyfriend is a bad thing. I loved my guy, but we were just too different. but three months? give it some time! you';ll find someone
2006-09-28 00:03:07 · answer #5 · answered by Eryn with a Y 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about it. Are you even ready for a new boyfriend so soon? It could be that you're giving off desperate vibes, so relax and don't worry about being single. You're more likely to attract a new boyfriend if you're not blatantly hunting for one.
2006-09-28 00:16:01 · answer #6 · answered by all1g8r 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im without a girlfreind ,but who cares .i can hunt when i want i can go to the bathroom when i want ,i can do everything i want to when i want too.But i need a little love every now and then .just forget it you will have plenty of bows in life you are young ,i think
2006-09-28 00:18:58 · answer #7 · answered by deerolmind 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you set your self up to fall. every thing comes in good time. Think about what you want and go for it. There is no problem with you maybe its them.
2006-09-28 00:39:04 · answer #8 · answered by janelle p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try loving your self first then someone else can love you the way YOU SHOULD be loved.
Good luck sweetie.
2006-09-28 01:36:38 · answer #9 · answered by Angel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you're looking in the wrong place.
Ya know - you dont always HAVE to have a bf.
2006-09-28 00:07:06 · answer #10 · answered by xcr0ss_my_heartx 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋