we are not living together due to his job
2006-09-27 16:53:25 · 12 answers · asked by Neha b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
maybe you could write him a letter and tell him that you love him and miss him. ask him if you 2 could like start over and let it be like it was before. a good man is hard to come by so hang in there ;hopefully he come to his sences. good woman are hard to come by to.... good- luck
2006-09-27 17:02:13 · answer #1 · answered by Cami lives 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its just a routine n life my friend. When ego dies, happiness is found right there. Just apologize to him saying you feel bad about what has happened last time. May be its the mistake on both ends, but give it a shot. Why worry...ur apologizing to ur hubby. Give him a surprise... a simple small surprise. Drop a card or a letter/mail...something that would say...wow... or make him think of the sweet old days... Things will be back. Love after a fight is really very thrilling. This is the best part in life. Brightness after dark is enjoyable right? so is love after a fight. Just call him up ..say I Love U and hang up... then see what happens
2006-09-28 00:21:15 · answer #2 · answered by Dream L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, fighting is a part of any relationship. Trust is required for a long and healthy and happy marriage. When he comes home open a channel of communication when you are not intimate. Men hate to work on problems when ready to make love. So choose a time when having a stroll or after the tummy is full and relaxing. Talk to him and go ahead and be a strong woman and offer an apology. He will melt!
2006-10-01 01:30:33 · answer #3 · answered by nice guy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
long distance mariages normally put a strain on relationships, him being so far away from you is probally putting mental strains on him. give him a few days to come around and if he doesnt in a reasonable amount of time then contact him and tell him just what you told us. At worse he can ignore the question and say nothings wrong, and that should be a good indicaton that he has something serious on his mind, and best he tells you whats wrong.
2006-09-28 00:07:27 · answer #4 · answered by D-man 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
write him a letter explaining how you feel. tell him what happened for you to react like you did, i can see from your question, that you love him, he will see it too. sometimes a letter is better, because you can explain the situation, and have no interruptions that get you off the track. be sincere, don't play the victim, or make him feel guilty. just let him know its hard on you also to be separated, and you expect all to be well when he returns. say you trust him, and let him know he can trust you. good luck.
2006-10-01 21:04:46 · answer #5 · answered by cee jay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it would be helpful to tell him what's on your mind in a non-confrontational way. Ask him if something is bothering him because he seems to be acting different. And truly listen to what he has to say. Don't get defensive or he will shut down communication.
2006-09-28 00:02:14 · answer #6 · answered by k 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to his town. try to understand him. stay there for few days. Mostly problems between husband & wife gets sorted in NIGHT.
2006-09-29 04:16:42 · answer #7 · answered by nandu4umiss 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why don't send flowers will sorry note or send on-line greeting saying sorry .at the same time if he was wrong make him realise when he is in happy mood.he will surely understand you
2006-09-28 13:25:40 · answer #8 · answered by simplewife20 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey ladies its ok dont messe ur world up! u know how much he love u n he know how much u love him right? just appologize n pray he would act as usually ok.....
2006-09-28 00:00:04 · answer #9 · answered by banana split 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a new girl will make us act a lot diffrent
2006-09-27 23:56:52 · answer #10 · answered by dpjrocheleau 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋